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Why does no one ever speak to me
Mraizawa
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mraizawa wrote:
Like ok so, I'm in beauty school. Everyone else just clicks like they've all known each other for years. Like they're all besties. But they all pretend I don't exist??? Is it because of me? Is it because women are bitchy? Like wtf did I do? I kinda wonder if it has to do with my appearance lol.
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Date: 10-12-2022 00:18
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idk, i find that just being open and willing to chat with people and help out gets you a long way in class friendships.

It's unlikely it is personal. Some ppl don't care beyond their group of people, some have enough with a few people, some just are occupied with other things, and many other reasons that aren't about you. Most likely, it is just that people don't know you?  But there are also ppl one simply don't vibe with - for being mean, or occupied or too different or whatever the cause. 

I def. get the worry about appearance. I've had that for years myself. But yeah, find the right people or like the people who sees beyond that, and also be that person yourself, and it won't really matter much. 

but big question
- do you speak to other people? 
Date: 10-12-2022 00:46 | Times changed: 2
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BloomCissi wrote:
Literally me from 6th grade and beyond, oof. But then I got a job, and things were completely different. So I think it's mostly about the environment and just the kind of people around you. Some people are the types who really go out of their way to make sure everyone is included, while most other people will just mind their own business, aka, if they don't connect with you initially, they won't bother later. So yeah, it's most likely nothing personal.
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Date: 10-12-2022 00:50
Mraizawa
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mraizawa wrote:
Nesta wrote:
idk, i find that just being open and willing to chat with people and help out gets you a long way in class friendships.

It's unlikely it is personal. Some ppl don't care beyond their group of people, some have enough with a few people, some just are occupied with other things, and many other reasons that aren't about you. Most likely, it is just that people don't know you?  But there are also ppl one simply don't vibe with - for being mean, or occupied or too different or whatever the cause. 

I def. get the worry about appearance. I've had that for years myself. But yeah, find the right people or like the people who sees beyond that, and also be that person yourself, and it won't really matter much. 

but big question
- do you speak to other people? 
I try to interact with people if I feel like I have something to bring to their conversation but it also seems awkward/rude to just butt into people's conversations so I usually wait until I'm spoken to.
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Date: 10-12-2022 00:56
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Evey wrote:
i feel like the typical person who goes to beauty school is a dick to anyone that doesn't fit into their picture of what's normal and are
well
yes, bitchy .................

and some ppl just seem to be able to click with anyone which is very weird to me

can't answer what's the issue in ur case tho and probably wouldn't be able even if i was in ur place either sakdlösakdls
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Date: 10-12-2022 00:56
MissLondon
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MissLondon wrote:
People are attracted to
what you put out.
Are you friendly or try to
start conversations with them?
Want to be included, you have 
to put forth some type of effort 
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Date: 10-12-2022 00:56
Mraizawa
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mraizawa wrote:
Evey wrote:
i feel like the typical person who goes to beauty school is a dick to anyone that doesn't fit into their picture of what's normal and are
well
yes, bitchy .................

and some ppl just seem to be able to click with anyone which is very weird to me

can't answer what's the issue in ur case tho and probably wouldn't be able even if i was in ur place either sakdlösakdls
Right? Like it really feels like if you're not a pretty skinny white girl with long hair it's over for you. They shut you down automatically. It's petty and bitchy, and I feel like they're in the wrong career for that attitude lol. But that's just my opinion.
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Date: 10-12-2022 01:03
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ouch wrote:
Same happens to me but I think its bcus I look like a tomboy masc girl (esp if I don't wear makeup) buteven if ai wear makeup I don't look like idk... Normal presentable girl 
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Date: 10-12-2022 01:03
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ouch wrote:
ouch wrote:
Same happens to me but I think its bcus I look like a tomboy masc girl (esp if I don't wear makeup) buteven if ai wear makeup I don't look like idk... Normal presentable girl 
Not like they don't want to be friends necessarily.. but just more that they won't approach me, and then later on its "too late"
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Date: 10-12-2022 01:04
Mraizawa
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mraizawa wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
People are attracted to
what you put out.
Are you friendly or try to
start conversations with them?
Want to be included, you have 
to put forth some type of effort 
I try to use friendly body language towards people so they know I'm open for conversation,  but as I said I also don't want to be rude and start talking to people who don't want to be talked to.
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Date: 10-12-2022 01:06
Mraizawa
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mraizawa wrote:
ouch wrote:
Same happens to me but I think its bcus I look like a tomboy masc girl (esp if I don't wear makeup) buteven if ai wear makeup I don't look like idk... Normal presentable girl 
Same, I don't look very feminine and don't act girly so maybe I...intimidate other women? Lol
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Date: 10-12-2022 01:07
Kit
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Kit wrote:
mraizawa wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
People are attracted to
what you put out.
Are you friendly or try to
start conversations with them?
Want to be included, you have 
to put forth some type of effort 
I try to use friendly body language towards people so they know I'm open for conversation,  but as I said I also don't want to be rude and start talking to people who don't want to be talked to.
i also have a very similar approach to strangers/groups but i don't think that's actually helpful if you really wanna make friends. you say you don't wanna talk to ppl randomly bc it might be rude, but i think actually waiting around for someone to approach you might also be seen as rude?

not to say you're doing something wrong, but the assumption of: "if nobody is talking to me it's bc they don't want to" doesn't work, clearly, since you wanna talk to ppl but are not talking to them
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Date: 10-12-2022 01:10
Kit
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Kit wrote:
also have to wonder, how much do u really wanna be friends with these people? do you actually like them, want to talk to them, and want to be a part of their conversations? or do you just want them to stop excluding you? (also perfectly valid!!! but there's a big difference between "i don't like that this group is mean to me" and "i want to be a part of this group" )
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Date: 10-12-2022 01:11 | Times changed: 1
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ouch wrote:
mraizawa wrote:
ouch wrote:
Same happens to me but I think its bcus I look like a tomboy masc girl (esp if I don't wear makeup) buteven if ai wear makeup I don't look like idk... Normal presentable girl 
Same, I don't look very feminine and don't act girly so maybe I...intimidate other women? Lol
Same, but I don't think I intimidate other women, I just think mby im not their type they gravitate towards for friendship idk. Its fine rlly, when I still went to chool I was in a class with my beat friend so I wasn't alone, but even when she wasn't there and I was "alone" I don't mind, except if theres forced mandatory breaks where u have to be among other students ? Idk
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Date: 10-12-2022 01:12
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ouch wrote:
ouch wrote:
mraizawa wrote:
ouch wrote:
Same happens to me but I think its bcus I look like a tomboy masc girl (esp if I don't wear makeup) buteven if ai wear makeup I don't look like idk... Normal presentable girl 
Same, I don't look very feminine and don't act girly so maybe I...intimidate other women? Lol
Same, but I don't think I intimidate other women, I just think mby im not their type they gravitate towards for friendship idk. Its fine rlly, when I still went to chool I was in a class with my beat friend so I wasn't alone, but even when she wasn't there and I was "alone" I don't mind, except if theres forced mandatory breaks where u have to be among other students ? Idk
I am 99% looks has smth to do with it tho, bcus I noticed after I started wearing makeup and looking more fem, ppl would approach me more. I could imagine thats the thing in beauty school at least 
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Date: 10-12-2022 01:13
Mraizawa
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mraizawa wrote:
Kit wrote:
also have to wonder, how much do u really wanna be friends with these people? do you actually like them, want to talk to them, and want to be a part of their conversations? or do you just want them to stop excluding you? (also perfectly valid!!! but there's a big difference between "i don't like that this group is mean to me" and "i want to be a part of this group"
I actually don't know the answer to that.  I never thought of that tbh lol
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Date: 10-12-2022 01:16
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