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Anachronism wrote:
For context, i work in a special needs group home, and a particular client made the accusation i sexually abused her twice in a week 2 1/2 months ago. First time I had to work in another home for two days and go through an investigation with the state, second time had to talk to a lovely cop. now I get to go to another home for a bit and deal with another investigation yet again 

I woke up at 4:20 am yeah I’m like pretty stressed thanks for ruining my mental health chick 

so many questions…. Why is she targeting me specifically? If I transfer am I letting her win? Or am I just not fit to handle her? 

she did call the cops on my boss a few weeks ago but she keeps making the abuse claims about me specifically and like what the fuck is life 
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Date: 30-12-2022 13:24 | Times changed: 1
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devilcake wrote:
I think for your own safety if you can transfer you should? Not really about letting her win or not, don’t think there are winners in this sort of situation 
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Date: 30-12-2022 13:31
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Fiex wrote:
what the heck, im so sorry you have to go through that
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Date: 30-12-2022 13:39
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
devilcake wrote:
I think for your own safety if you can transfer you should? Not really about letting her win or not, don’t think there are winners in this sort of situation 
Leaving gives her her way… it sends a message if she is mad at someone all she has to do is make this claim and she can get them fired or to quit. It gives her power and an incentive to bully. But it’s genuinely making me question my sanity and safety and if I’m the right person to work for her. 

I know she’s done this before to others but I’m her new favorite target and she could care less the stress and low worth this puts on me. She is something else honestly. 

I am on good terms with my boss and absolutely love my job so it would pain me to leave but if I have to transfer well I hope she has a happy life calling the cops on people and wearing pants she’s pissed and peed in for three days in a row. 

im just going to have the “should I stay or should I go” discussion in the office and with my boss and go from there but in the meantime my mind will be racing yeah
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Date: 30-12-2022 13:41
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
@Barbarella you mentioned liability insurance which I didn’t look into and really regret 

definitely bringing that up when I have my meeting on Wednesday 
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Date: 30-12-2022 13:44
Anachronism
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I called her out for  using her housemates shampoo and also told her I don’t want to discuss her behavior book so she must of deduced she didn’t get all pulses cuz she went on a tirade about how good she had been 

-_- 

I weirdly feel sorry for her cuz I could not imagine living like that at 34 years old wow
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Anachronism wrote:


My theme song rn
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Date: 30-12-2022 14:10
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ouch wrote:
Whys she still allowed to live there even 
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Date: 30-12-2022 16:02
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Claire wrote:
you should get out of there for your own safety. if someone accused me of abusing them i would not give them another opportunity to make an accusation like that. i would not be alone in a room with this person ever. tbh no one should be alone with this person from what youve described. 

is it JUST and right that you should have to leave when you did nothing wrong? of course not. world aint a fair place. keep yourself safe. dont worry about justice.
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Date: 30-12-2022 20:25
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Anachronism wrote:
ouch wrote:
Whys she still allowed to live there even 
Good question I’ve been wondering why they don’t transfer her to the state hospital myself 
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Date: 30-12-2022 21:09
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Anachronism wrote:
Claire wrote:
you should get out of there for your own safety. if someone accused me of abusing them i would not give them another opportunity to make an accusation like that. i would not be alone in a room with this person ever. tbh no one should be alone with this person from what youve described. 

is it JUST and right that you should have to leave when you did nothing wrong? of course not. world aint a fair place. keep yourself safe. dont worry about justice.
It’s hard because I love my job but I guess she wins. Whatever. 

on the plus side I will be transferring to another place for a few days and if I like it I can stay there 
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Date: 30-12-2022 21:36
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MissLondon wrote:
Could you switch patients 
with another co-worker
whenever she’s assigned to you?
It doesn’t make sense to continually 
deal with that repeatedly 
considering the history 
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Date: 30-12-2022 22:17
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Could you switch patients 
with another co-worker
whenever she’s assigned to you?
It doesn’t make sense to continually 
deal with that repeatedly 
considering the history 
We aren’t assigned anyone. Whoever is able just helps with needs. And whoever is on med key will have to help with her meds. It’s a unique set up.

I was refusing to assist her with bathing but did it again because she was trying to take one when two people are busy (she is supposed to be supervised) and I like regret it. I’m naive, I figured she would realize by now people aren’t gonna believe her 

I just think I’m not a fit for her at this point 
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Date: 30-12-2022 22:28
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MissLondon wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Could you switch patients 
with another co-worker
whenever she’s assigned to you?
It doesn’t make sense to continually 
deal with that repeatedly 
considering the history 
We aren’t assigned anyone. Whoever is able just helps with needs. And whoever is on med key will have to help with her meds. It’s a unique set up.

I was refusing to assist her with bathing but did it again because she was trying to take one when two people are busy (she is supposed to be supervised) and I like regret it. I’m naive, I figured she would realize by now people aren’t gonna believe her 

I just think I’m not a fit for her at this point 
If you have to take care of her
maybe have someone accompany you
whenever dealing with her.
even tho you know that
you’ve done nothing wrong
at least you have a witness 
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Date: 30-12-2022 23:54
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Claire wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Could you switch patients 
with another co-worker
whenever she’s assigned to you?
It doesn’t make sense to continually 
deal with that repeatedly 
considering the history 
We aren’t assigned anyone. Whoever is able just helps with needs. And whoever is on med key will have to help with her meds. It’s a unique set up.

I was refusing to assist her with bathing but did it again because she was trying to take one when two people are busy (she is supposed to be supervised) and I like regret it. I’m naive, I figured she would realize by now people aren’t gonna believe her 

I just think I’m not a fit for her at this point 
If you have to take care of her
maybe have someone accompany you
whenever dealing with her.
even tho you know that
you’ve done nothing wrong
at least you have a witness 
i think this is key. do not be ALONE with this person. NOBODY should be alone with her since youre not the first person shes done this to.
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Date: 31-12-2022 00:32
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Claire wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
We aren’t assigned anyone. Whoever is able just helps with needs. And whoever is on med key will have to help with her meds. It’s a unique set up.

I was refusing to assist her with bathing but did it again because she was trying to take one when two people are busy (she is supposed to be supervised) and I like regret it. I’m naive, I figured she would realize by now people aren’t gonna believe her 

I just think I’m not a fit for her at this point 
If you have to take care of her
maybe have someone accompany you
whenever dealing with her.
even tho you know that
you’ve done nothing wrong
at least you have a witness 
i think this is key. do not be ALONE with this person. NOBODY should be alone with her since youre not the first person shes done this to.
Fortunately we have cameras, worked in my favor when I called her out for taking the group home phone and she called the cops saying I stole the phone from her and “touched her inappropriately” when I grabbed it (lol wtf). Not only did I have a witness, the cameras proved all I did was touch her pocket then put my hands away when it was clear she wasn’t gonna give the phone back. 

she’s having a rough time, I know when I visited on Wednesday on my off day to wish someone a happy birthday she wasn’t at work and supposedly pushed someone on the bus. They’ve been talking about admitting her to the psych ward temporarily and idk why they haven’t. 

the issue is there are no cameras in the bathroom. Per protocol you are supposed to supervise her during a bath and ofc she took one in the middle of dinner without calling for anyone so I went in since I was the only staff who wasn’t supervising someone or eating. I should of asked someone else to do it. I was naive to think she would let it go. 

if I chose to stay im not helping her with a bath anymore. Even tho she’s pulling shit like stealing her housemates shampoo and needs supervision. Whatever. I was trying to help her get points for the day but I call her out and that’s how I’m repaid
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