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am i being unresonable
Cult
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cult wrote:
my boyfriends best friend broke up with his girlfriend in october after a night out and after having just moved in together. it was after she had disappeared at night and he looked all night for her only to discover something that forced him to leave basically, he's been really sad abt it and has cried a lot recently too because he misses her but isn't ready to talk about what she did yet

Back story, my boyfriend studies the same thing as her and they had early on decided they would write an final essay together with another girl as well (3 ppl). Late october my boyfriend asked his best friend if it was ok that they still write together and his best friend was like "yes please do i don't want to make it a weird situation for you"

and today they finished writing it and wanted to celebrate and i told him that i don't recommend him going out with the girls given that his best friend is still grieving and that he could celebrate with me and his friends.

He decided against that and went out anyway, which is fine because it's not my business. I just noticed he was at her apartment celebrating and I think that's too far. Like sorry but your best friend lived there until a few months ago and is still sad about the break up????

He's back home soon I don't know if im going too far if i confrontate him?? I think him going to her place is messed up. Please what would you do
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Date: 12-01-2023 23:24 | Times changed: 1
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cult wrote:
He's home in 5 minutes pls. I really am getting fired up but I don't know if it's my business at all. I wouldn't want him to do this to me and im seeing this as a betrayal to his friend which is getting me annoyed
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Date: 12-01-2023 23:30
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devilcake wrote:
idk its a shitty thing to do of your boyfriend, but its also between him and his friend, so you confronting him might be a bit harsh? Does it have to be a big sort of confrontation, maybe its something thats better to have a calm discussion about in the morning
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Date: 12-01-2023 23:30
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ouch wrote:
No I don't think ur unreasonable if u confront him tbh. I wouldn't go super hard on him probably but just ask abt it like what u doing man or smth like that idk
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Date: 12-01-2023 23:31
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cult wrote:
ouch wrote:
No I don't think ur unreasonable if u confront him tbh. I wouldn't go super hard on him probably but just ask abt it like what u doing man or smth like that idk
Yeah that's probably what i will do

thank you 
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Date: 12-01-2023 23:33
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ouch wrote:
cult wrote:
ouch wrote:
No I don't think ur unreasonable if u confront him tbh. I wouldn't go super hard on him probably but just ask abt it like what u doing man or smth like that idk
Yeah that's probably what i will do

thank you 
Idk how much hes been drinking or what tho, but if hes too tipsy or drunk I would wait until tomorrow tho, would be more constructive I guess
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Date: 12-01-2023 23:35
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MissLondon wrote:
Seems as if you’re more upset 
over him hanging out
than the ex bf is
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Date: 12-01-2023 23:42
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ouch wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Seems as if you’re more upset 
over him hanging out
than the ex bf is
Seems the ex bf wasn't aware of the hanging out? I don't know what he knows or not, but being ok with him writing a paper with her that they had already planned, and being ok w them hanging out at her place n stuff are two different things, but I don't know the situation 
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Date: 12-01-2023 23:46
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MissLondon wrote:
ouch wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Seems as if you’re more upset 
over him hanging out
than the ex bf is
Seems the ex bf wasn't aware of the hanging out? I don't know what he knows or not, but being ok with him writing a paper with her that they had already planned, and being ok w them hanging out at her place n stuff are two different things, but I don't know the situation 
It really depends on whether
all of them were friends prior to the breakup
and the ex bf sounds like a bitch
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Date: 12-01-2023 23:54
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ouch wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
ouch wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Seems as if you’re more upset 
over him hanging out
than the ex bf is
Seems the ex bf wasn't aware of the hanging out? I don't know what he knows or not, but being ok with him writing a paper with her that they had already planned, and being ok w them hanging out at her place n stuff are two different things, but I don't know the situation 
It really depends on whether
all of them were friends prior to the breakup
and the ex bf sounds like a bitch
Depends what she did I guess, but since nobody knows except him and his ex gf its hard to say 
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Date: 12-01-2023 23:56
MissLondon
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MissLondon wrote:
ouch wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
ouch wrote:
Seems the ex bf wasn't aware of the hanging out? I don't know what he knows or not, but being ok with him writing a paper with her that they had already planned, and being ok w them hanging out at her place n stuff are two different things, but I don't know the situation 
It really depends on whether
all of them were friends prior to the breakup
and the ex bf sounds like a bitch
Depends what she did I guess, but since nobody knows except him and his ex gf its hard to say 
Probably fucked someone else
is my guess…it’s the crying
since October for me tho
Yeah people do shitty things 
and sometimes it hurts
but if he’s that miserable 
forgive and get her back
or move on cause it doesn’t 
sound as if she’s thinking about him lol
Anyway, I went beyond what was asked
and that’s my cue to bounce 
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Date: 13-01-2023 00:11
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