Limbs wrote:DeIure wrote:
Honestly sounds more like general money issues than actual abuse ???
mm yeah that as well
ii just feel like it's really fucked up that he's blaming her when she did nothing wrong, and then refusing to look at the evidence that would show what actually happened. because of a minute reason since checking the bank records only costs cents. n she can't prove herself innocent because he is holding that power over her
and ye, nesta ^ the bigger picture is that he is always raging at her for everything, blaming her for everything going wrong in their family, badmouthing her, etc. and yelling at her because he has to spend his money to pay for things for his own kids. either way even if it's not abuse it's really sad :/
If he's always blowing up at her then it's another thing entirely than "fight a lot" (both parties at fault) and him being angry about a situation that really sounds like they're very tight on money (not alright to blow up at your partner, but if you're stressed AF about the financial situation of your family it sometimes happens. We're all only human.) I have been there with the stress and unfortunately relate to it.