Melody wrote:
i think it's definitely one of those phrases that are often misused and misunderstood. it gets used by people who have no idea what it's like having a mental illness and it becomes toxic positivity at that point
i think the word "love" is the one that throws people off. to me it's more like "if you can't take care of yourself, how are you gonna take care of others?", and that's very good advise