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I hate christmas
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Maxwell wrote:
Getting gifts in general is so hard but getting gifts that r so not u nd they go "I thought abt u" is a different kinda ouch

Like I remember getting a gift from my aunt some years ago nd she was like "ur hair is short but that doesnt mean u cant dress up ;)" nd it was a cute headband thing nd I

The thought is so cjute omg but it's not me. Never in my years alive have I dressed up like this. Am I just awful at being read or do ppl read me like this. Do ppl see me as someone who wanna wear this? Im not unfamiliar w my aunt, we meet a lot, does she see me as this? Like I wud wear this? Even when I wasnt out as trans idk how they saw this and thought I would like it?

Christmas is just a whole load of "we dont know u" nd idk how to cope!
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Maxwell wrote:
Christmas is a time to feel close nd get together w family nd yet I feel more distant after evry time :cry
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Maxwell wrote:
Im cancelling christmas Im just gonna play 99 nights all night this yeat
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Date: 12-12-2025 00:53
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devilcake wrote:
i think some relatives make very little effort in actually knowing younger gens beyond like thats my grandkid or whatever, so in this example you were probably just catgeorized as grandchild+age+gender = hairband 
it helps to have a very obvious hobby cos ive always gotten art supplies and books, though not always things that are of use to me or that i want but then it at least feels thought ful cos they tried
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devilcake wrote:
some people also seem to care more about the act of giving than the gift or the recipient like my mom isnt even that thoughtful with her gifts but she loves spamming gifts on people in a way that feels sort of selfish ig
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devilcake wrote:
like ig some people just dont put as much thought into it, like not in a not putting thoughts into the gift way even but they just arent stressed out about what they give so they also dont like overthink it to the extent anxious people do? but i am unsure if they still care about getting a happy reaction or not
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Maxwell wrote:
devilcake wrote:
like ig some people just dont put as much thought into it, like not in a not putting thoughts into the gift way even but they just arent stressed out about what they give so they also dont like overthink it to the extent anxious people do? but i am unsure if they still care about getting a happy reaction or not
I wish I was a girlboss nd just not overthinkin evrythin ooooh to b a girlboss
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Date: 12-12-2025 01:02
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devilcake wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
devilcake wrote:
like ig some people just dont put as much thought into it, like not in a not putting thoughts into the gift way even but they just arent stressed out about what they give so they also dont like overthink it to the extent anxious people do? but i am unsure if they still care about getting a happy reaction or not
I wish I was a girlboss nd just not overthinkin evrythin ooooh to b a girlboss
every day i wish i got my moms brand of adhd instead of whatever this mess is
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Azriel wrote:
i only get presents from my parents at christmas and i need to tell them what to get me bc they dont know and dont want to waste money i love stingy dutch parents that will give me everything i ask for 

my bf also gets me a present now and im very curious to know what he bought me this year. he gives me a lot of gifts and a lot of them arent rly me either lmao
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kruspersille wrote:
ønsk, ønskeskyen, vipps ønskeliste etc 
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Suchomimus wrote:
i only get/give to mama and siblings, everyone else is too distant to know, so they does moneys if they want 
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Maxwell wrote:
I want no christmas I hate it I want it gone Im gonna hibernate til it's over
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Date: 12-12-2025 01:18
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devilcake wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
I want no christmas I hate it I want it gone Im gonna hibernate til it's over
come to my moms bnb were not gonna celebrate christmas except baking treats and we will watch twilight
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Date: 12-12-2025 01:27
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anjel wrote:
i feel this, my mom did a similar thing and bought me a really girly and expensive looking jewelry box one year b4 i came out, and i felt so bad cuz i was never going to use that. i was trying so hard not to be rude like "ohhh... wow, thank you... i don't wear any jewelry so i'll have to find something else to use it for..." and she was like "well you will have a lot of jewelry some day!" idk why she thought that. but nowadays she just asks me to send her a link to what i want lol.

i would rather we didn't exchange gifts at all, it feels like just performing a tradition without any heart in it.
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MissLondon wrote:
Ask people to make a donation to animal shelters or charities of your choice in lieu of gifts
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