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People who arrive early
Teabag
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Teabag wrote:
Why do you come earlier than the agreed time? How much earlier do You as an early person think is reasonable? 
Genuinely wanna understand what goes through your brains so i dont rage at my aunt and grandma.

Every damn year they come like 10min too early and my parents have told them we dont appreciate that. Guess who decided to come A WHOLE ASS HOUR TOO EARLY ✨️✨️



We invited to dinner bc we didnt want to stress abt getting everything ready, we wanted time to breathe. So we gave ourselves that time.
Time management isnt an excuse like "oh we thought it would take longer to get there w traffic" cus they live 10min away. They could've just stayed at home.



Tell me why people are like this. I do not understand.
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Date: 24-12-2025 17:07
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devilcake wrote:
I am either very early or very late but when I am very early I will wait elsewhere until the correct times I cannot say why people do this
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Date: 24-12-2025 17:36
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devilcake wrote:
But tbh I don’t think 10 minutes is too crazy, I think arrival window that’s ”acceptable” is 10minutes to early to 10 minutes late because 10 minutes is an amount of time you might not be in control of with traffic or public transport or idk suddenly toilet emergency. Earlier than 10 minutes would annoy me but ten minutes early is just like okay you help set things up now have fun


tho if you have told them repeatedly that’s rude yah,,, altho my family is always told we’re late n we’re still always late….
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Date: 24-12-2025 17:40
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devilcake wrote:
Hour early is insane
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Date: 24-12-2025 17:41
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Teabag wrote:
devilcake wrote:
But tbh I don’t think 10 minutes is too crazy, I think arrival window that’s ”acceptable” is 10minutes to early to 10 minutes late because 10 minutes is an amount of time you might not be in control of with traffic or public transport or idk suddenly toilet emergency. Earlier than 10 minutes would annoy me but ten minutes early is just like okay you help set things up now have fun


tho if you have told them repeatedly that’s rude yah,,, altho my family is always told we’re late n we’re still always late….
Cousin came 10min early now and that felt very reasonable in comparison
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Date: 24-12-2025 17:55
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devilcake wrote:
Teabag wrote:
devilcake wrote:
But tbh I don’t think 10 minutes is too crazy, I think arrival window that’s ”acceptable” is 10minutes to early to 10 minutes late because 10 minutes is an amount of time you might not be in control of with traffic or public transport or idk suddenly toilet emergency. Earlier than 10 minutes would annoy me but ten minutes early is just like okay you help set things up now have fun


tho if you have told them repeatedly that’s rude yah,,, altho my family is always told we’re late n we’re still always late….
Cousin came 10min early now and that felt very reasonable in comparison
Yes… 10 minutes early is only annoying if person 2 is 10 minutes late….
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Date: 24-12-2025 17:56
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MissLondon wrote:
I think it's normal that some people will show up early 
An hour early is unusual but I would offer them a cocktail 
and continue with whatever I'm doing 
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Date: 24-12-2025 18:20
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Solar wrote:
devilcake wrote:
But tbh I don’t think 10 minutes is too crazy, I think arrival window that’s ”acceptable” is 10minutes to early to 10 minutes late because 10 minutes is an amount of time you might not be in control of with traffic or public transport or idk suddenly toilet emergency. Earlier than 10 minutes would annoy me but ten minutes early is just like okay you help set things up now have fun


tho if you have told them repeatedly that’s rude yah,,, altho my family is always told we’re late n we’re still always late….
i actually hate when ppl are 10 mins earlier at my house
like w eplay dnd sometimes n we has a friend whod aaalways be 10 mins too early and we would still be half cleaning the house n stuff, it was very stressful
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Date: 24-12-2025 20:47
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devilcake wrote:
Solar wrote:
devilcake wrote:
But tbh I don’t think 10 minutes is too crazy, I think arrival window that’s ”acceptable” is 10minutes to early to 10 minutes late because 10 minutes is an amount of time you might not be in control of with traffic or public transport or idk suddenly toilet emergency. Earlier than 10 minutes would annoy me but ten minutes early is just like okay you help set things up now have fun


tho if you have told them repeatedly that’s rude yah,,, altho my family is always told we’re late n we’re still always late….
i actually hate when ppl are 10 mins earlier at my house
like w eplay dnd sometimes n we has a friend whod aaalways be 10 mins too early and we would still be half cleaning the house n stuff, it was very stressful
It’s defo stressful but also understandable because if someone is just like trying not to be late they might just end up 10-5 minutes early,,, like i wouldn’t be actively annoyed just stressed in general
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Date: 24-12-2025 20:49
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devilcake wrote:
But also I’m stress regardless of what if someone is coming over so it doesn’t really change much in that sense
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Date: 24-12-2025 20:49
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Solar wrote:
devilcake wrote:
Solar wrote:
devilcake wrote:
But tbh I don’t think 10 minutes is too crazy, I think arrival window that’s ”acceptable” is 10minutes to early to 10 minutes late because 10 minutes is an amount of time you might not be in control of with traffic or public transport or idk suddenly toilet emergency. Earlier than 10 minutes would annoy me but ten minutes early is just like okay you help set things up now have fun


tho if you have told them repeatedly that’s rude yah,,, altho my family is always told we’re late n we’re still always late….
i actually hate when ppl are 10 mins earlier at my house
like w eplay dnd sometimes n we has a friend whod aaalways be 10 mins too early and we would still be half cleaning the house n stuff, it was very stressful
It’s defo stressful but also understandable because if someone is just like trying not to be late they might just end up 10-5 minutes early,,, like i wouldn’t be actively annoyed just stressed in general
mmmm yes but they all live pretty close
and i personally think its better to be late but thats me i get v anxious from the socializing i have to do when im early 
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Date: 24-12-2025 20:54
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Solar wrote:
but i agree its socially more acceptable to be early than late it feels like someone took extra effort to ensure being on time which makes us feel appreciated 
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Date: 24-12-2025 20:55
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