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why do people do this
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
why is it when people invite me to hangout they always end up talking to someone else in the group and ignore me
i usually come to hangouts and only speak a few words and just sit on my phone bc i am not welcome to their converstions
people only invite me to things for reasons i cant pinpoint, but its never bc they want to spend time with me
maybe they just feel bad for me? i cant think of another reason to invite someone to hangout if you dont like them unless its for nefarious reasons lol
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Date: 13-04-2026 15:00
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
when my in laws invite me and husband over it always feels like its him coming over and i unfortunately came with like my father in law will come over to drive us to his place and i sit in the back quietly while fil talks to my husband
then i sit on my phone while they play video games
i understand that he wants to spend time with his son
but why do i need to come like you couldve just said "dont bring lexi bc i dont want to see her" but no you had to pretend i was gonna be wanted there and interacted with
why??
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Date: 13-04-2026 15:04
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
oh n people do this to me digitally too!
people add me to group chats and only talk to the other people in the chat
i used to contribute to group chats when people added me
now i just leave the moment they add me bc i dont feel like putting effort into funny jokes/memes/gifs only to have them ignored sad
then they dm me asking why i left
bitch???
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Date: 13-04-2026 15:07
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
do people do this to you guys or am i just a loser no one likes talking to??
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Date: 13-04-2026 15:13
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
do people do this to you guys or am i just a loser no one likes talking to??
oh ok
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Date: 13-04-2026 15:44
Solar
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Solar wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
when my in laws invite me and husband over it always feels like its him coming over and i unfortunately came with like my father in law will come over to drive us to his place and i sit in the back quietly while fil talks to my husband
then i sit on my phone while they play video games
i understand that he wants to spend time with his son
but why do i need to come like you couldve just said "dont bring lexi bc i dont want to see her" but no you had to pretend i was gonna be wanted there and interacted with
why??
this is not an appropriate thing to say, so even if that was the case, it's not socially acceptable to say stuff like that
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Date: 13-04-2026 15:46
Solar
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Solar wrote:
idk i dont know you irl so it's hard to give any advice or answer your question why this happens to you 
maybe the people you know are assholes
maybe it's not easy to have a conversation with you
i feel like if you truly want to know the answer to this you have to put in the work of analysing all the social interactions you have objectively 
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Date: 13-04-2026 15:47
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Solar wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
when my in laws invite me and husband over it always feels like its him coming over and i unfortunately came with like my father in law will come over to drive us to his place and i sit in the back quietly while fil talks to my husband
then i sit on my phone while they play video games
i understand that he wants to spend time with his son
but why do i need to come like you couldve just said "dont bring lexi bc i dont want to see her" but no you had to pretend i was gonna be wanted there and interacted with
why??
this is not an appropriate thing to say, so even if that was the case, it's not socially acceptable to say stuff like that
well i wouldnt know if he said it if he only told husband
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Date: 13-04-2026 16:23
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Solar wrote:
idk i dont know you irl so it's hard to give any advice or answer your question why this happens to you 
maybe the people you know are assholes
maybe it's not easy to have a conversation with you
i feel like if you truly want to know the answer to this you have to put in the work of analysing all the social interactions you have objectively 
its probably not easy to have a conversation with me for some reason because if it was they would talk to me
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Date: 13-04-2026 16:24
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
i like to talk to people if theyre willing to listen
but no one ever is so i just stay quiet mostly
i only talk to my mom and my husband, and sometimes they dont even seem like they want to talk
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Date: 13-04-2026 16:27
Solar
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Solar wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Solar wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
when my in laws invite me and husband over it always feels like its him coming over and i unfortunately came with like my father in law will come over to drive us to his place and i sit in the back quietly while fil talks to my husband
then i sit on my phone while they play video games
i understand that he wants to spend time with his son
but why do i need to come like you couldve just said "dont bring lexi bc i dont want to see her" but no you had to pretend i was gonna be wanted there and interacted with
why??
this is not an appropriate thing to say, so even if that was the case, it's not socially acceptable to say stuff like that
well i wouldnt know if he said it if he only told husband
mhm yes but maybe your husband would take offense, i know i would if someone said that about my bf 
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Date: 13-04-2026 16:28
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Solar wrote:
LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
Solar wrote:
this is not an appropriate thing to say, so even if that was the case, it's not socially acceptable to say stuff like that
well i wouldnt know if he said it if he only told husband
mhm yes but maybe your husband would take offense, i know i would if someone said that about my bf 
i would hope so
but you would think hed take notice that his dad doesnt like me
but he denies it
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Date: 13-04-2026 16:39
MissLondon
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MissLondon wrote:
If it’s a hangout, I talk to everyone
if it’s a party/social function, I work the room like a politician lol
I’m also talkative tho
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Date: 13-04-2026 16:40
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
If it’s a hangout, I talk to everyone
if it’s a party/social function, I work the room like a politician lol
I’m also talkative tho
if its a party like the birthday get together for my one friend, i sit silently until someone decides im worth interacting with
i dont know what you mean work the room like a politician? do you lie to everyone at the party and then pickpocket them? lmao 
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Date: 13-04-2026 16:43
LexiLuvsKirby
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LexiLuvsKirby wrote:
i wonder if its my resting bitch face that people never speak to me
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Date: 13-04-2026 16:45
Private
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Hauru wrote:
idk but if you want to talk with people you need to be open to be the first one to engage then ppl will realize its easy to talk to you. Dont expect people to go out of their way to break through someone to get them to talk. Try jumping into the conversation by asking people questions even if its not something that interests you. Just try to not do it in a way where you try to dominate the conversation. Being on your phone or looking away will not make people approach you bcs they might think youre bored or dont want to be there. Make eye contact and smile. I have a RBF and still get ppl to talk its all about engagement 
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