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if you had a friend
Olympus
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okay, help 
if you and a friend (or friends) had a friendship breakup and it ended on kind of "this friendship has run its course" terms, not entirely positive but not negative or catty in nature, with a "maybe we can revisit later" kind of vibe

then seeing them on social media started making you uncomfortable, would you mute them until you felt like you processed and aren't triggered or simply unfollow and hope if you reunite, you reunite? 
Olympus
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i feel like its something so small and silly, but i also feel like i'm letting them get away with making me uncomfortable to some degree and still having access to me, as happened in friendship and its like am going against myself by not revoking access??????? or is this stupid
Private
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i would say its not worth spending your energy on, protect your own peace 
Olympus
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bee wrote:
i would say its not worth spending your energy on, protect your own peace 
I agree!! but i have a habit of catastrophizing in my mind, like if i do this will it lead to anything negative or untoward that i might regret...
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Olympus wrote:
bee wrote:
i would say its not worth spending your energy on, protect your own peace 
I agree!! but i have a habit of catastrophizing in my mind, like if i do this will it lead to anything negative or untoward that i might regret...
but otherwise is this not leading to your own negative feelings? is that worth what may or may not happen in the future?
Private
Prince of Pop



Mute

though avtually i learned the hard way that muting someones insta does not mute stories . But apparently u can also mute stories i just havent figured out how yet
MissLondon
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It would depend on how long we’ve been friends 
but it’s likely I wouldn’t mute them 
I would be angry/hurt 
but the love would still be there
and even if we’re not speaking 
I would still want to know if they’re doing well 
it really depends on the dynamics of your friendship 
but overall, do what makes you comfortable 
until you’re able to deal 

Friendship issues suck 
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