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naurrrr bc what is her issue 
ok so this is about my ex's roommate. this girl is always so nice to me when other people are present but when we're alone she does weird s like:
-weird about clothes i wear. said i'm wearing too little/was revealing when i had an over-sized t-shirt (from my back then bf) and a medium-length, flowy skirt. like literally took me aside to have a "talk" with me. that everyone can see the shape of my body in this outfit and that she worries how men will behave when i leave the house. even though the outfit i wore had no accessories and nothing hugged my body. what i'm trying to say is that the outfit was objectively not "slutty", but she kept questioning if i "really" dislike men as much as i say if i wear this
-also weird when i wear makeup so i stopped doing that around her. like she keeps commenting my attractiveness and how i do my makeup but it feels like,,, not normal girltalk if that makes sense? or when i do my hair, she comments how she wants to do her hair once she loses weight? as if she wouldn't be allowed as long as she is overweight? and saying how it must take soooo long to do all this in the morning and that she could never bc she just doesn't care like that
-when my back then bf commented on me being "small" in a playful way she quickly (and in a somewhat upset way) told him not to say that, as if being small was a slur or something? i'm totally normal weight btw
-brings food up with me in a super weird way. like what i eat, what she eats. also her weightloss journey (which is for genuine health concerns). idk it's giving ed twin
-i go to uni. she vented to me how she wants to go too but feels too old. so i cheered her up by sharing that im 27 and it was such a great decision to wait, you can do this too :3 yaddayadda. she says that shes surprised that im "soooo old" and the whole convo turns to me being "old" girl i was trying to tell you you have sm time to do stuff adfhgjkfj,,,
-when me and my back then bf had a fight, she tried rly hard to make me tell her what happened. no emotional support, just what happened. i didnt tell her anything bc it felt sus. when the fight was over, i found out she had been offering her support to my back then bf and gave him a booklet on abuse. which is fair ig if i come across as an abuser but it was so wild how she was trying to force this girl talk with me
-theres sm more but ig these are the most obvious ones
and ok we are now in the present. me and my ex recently broke up. and this girl is in my dms again, fishing for what happeneeeed (i didnt respond) while my ex told me that apparently she has picked a very clear side on our breakup and thats his, even though she knows nothing about our relationship and we broke up as in friendly terms. idk what her issue is fr bc i swear shes always so friendly to me as long as there are other people present but so weird when we are alone
ok so this is about my ex's roommate. this girl is always so nice to me when other people are present but when we're alone she does weird s like:
-weird about clothes i wear. said i'm wearing too little/was revealing when i had an over-sized t-shirt (from my back then bf) and a medium-length, flowy skirt. like literally took me aside to have a "talk" with me. that everyone can see the shape of my body in this outfit and that she worries how men will behave when i leave the house. even though the outfit i wore had no accessories and nothing hugged my body. what i'm trying to say is that the outfit was objectively not "slutty", but she kept questioning if i "really" dislike men as much as i say if i wear this
-also weird when i wear makeup so i stopped doing that around her. like she keeps commenting my attractiveness and how i do my makeup but it feels like,,, not normal girltalk if that makes sense? or when i do my hair, she comments how she wants to do her hair once she loses weight? as if she wouldn't be allowed as long as she is overweight? and saying how it must take soooo long to do all this in the morning and that she could never bc she just doesn't care like that
-when my back then bf commented on me being "small" in a playful way she quickly (and in a somewhat upset way) told him not to say that, as if being small was a slur or something? i'm totally normal weight btw
-brings food up with me in a super weird way. like what i eat, what she eats. also her weightloss journey (which is for genuine health concerns). idk it's giving ed twin
-i go to uni. she vented to me how she wants to go too but feels too old. so i cheered her up by sharing that im 27 and it was such a great decision to wait, you can do this too :3 yaddayadda. she says that shes surprised that im "soooo old" and the whole convo turns to me being "old"
girl i was trying to tell you you have sm time to do stuff adfhgjkfj,,,-when me and my back then bf had a fight, she tried rly hard to make me tell her what happened. no emotional support, just what happened. i didnt tell her anything bc it felt sus. when the fight was over, i found out she had been offering her support to my back then bf and gave him a booklet on abuse. which is fair ig if i come across as an abuser but it was so wild how she was trying to force this girl talk with me
-theres sm more but ig these are the most obvious ones
and ok we are now in the present. me and my ex recently broke up. and this girl is in my dms again, fishing for what happeneeeed (i didnt respond) while my ex told me that apparently she has picked a very clear side on our breakup and thats his, even though she knows nothing about our relationship and we broke up as in friendly terms. idk what her issue is fr bc i swear shes always so friendly to me as long as there are other people present but so weird when we are alone
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