Laboratory wrote:ellem wrote:
Such an important subject!! I personally try to, like you wrote, wear clothes I find pretty, especially if I have a bad day!! Also I’m quite tattooed and I find that super helpful as well?? Like I can focus on all that beautiful art I have on my body and that makes me like my body more? If that makes sense haha <3
<33 ! so happy to touch on this
& Yesss oh my god agreed with the tattoos -- for me the planning tattoos & really considering what I want both for like tattoos & other body mods really makes me focus on what I myself find nice as opposed to what I am supposed to find nice.. or society's ideal, you know?
& also while we're on the tattoos I kinda feel like it helped me be less timid in terms of showing skin cause now I have a little bit of that .. desire to show off the work I have on me hahahah & yeah ... tattoos are just great for feeling comfortable (if ur happy with the tattoo that is.... lmao)
Yes exactly!! I hated wearing like short skirts or tank tops before but now I’m like DUDES LOOK AT MY SKIN ITS PRETTY like it’s changed my entire view of my body!! Ahah I’m lucky in that field, 0 regrets even tho I have so many stupid ones haha