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Pusk
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Pusk wrote:

Claire wrote:

Pusk wrote:
I understand, if the moderators feels majorly attacked, cus it do seem like yall wont give them a fair chance. Everything about this thread makes perfectly good sense. More overview, easier to manage certain topics. What is not good about that?

I gave them a fair chance for two years.

I don't know man. I figure this is quite rude of everyone to just give up on the moderators, when they're clearly trying. I cannot speak for them, but I do understand if they don't even bother trying. They do it, cus it's their job.

December
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December wrote:
a dedicated forum section, it's easier to find and more organized

Private
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Rotte wrote:

Pusk wrote:

Macy wrote:

Pusk wrote:
That is for their own good. Dude, I'd not be here, if I felt so bad. Just, why would one even bother?

Because i dont think people expect a dress up website to be a place for triggering topics and mental health. Seen from the outside eye

Well, I wouldn't have stayed for the dress up. The community is somewhat better in my opinion - and sometimes that's dumb and silly, trolling subject. Topics about mental illness and period or what the hell not.

I mean i dont stay for that either, but i dont stay here to talk about mental health either.

Im here for the fun topics, the chats and what not. I personally look around the threads about mental health mostly. But not everyone can or would know before they are in them.

Pusk
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Pusk wrote:

Macy wrote:

Pusk wrote:

Macy wrote:
Because i dont think people expect a dress up website to be a place for triggering topics and mental health. Seen from the outside eye

Well, I wouldn't have stayed for the dress up. The community is somewhat better in my opinion - and sometimes that's dumb and silly, trolling subject. Topics about mental illness and period or what the hell not.

I mean i dont stay for that either, but i dont stay here to talk about mental health either.

Im here for the fun topics, the chats and what not. I personally look around the threads about mental health mostly. But not everyone can or would know before they are in them.

You don't go to school to get bullied or to bully. You don't get a job, so your boss can yell you in the face everyday. You don't donate to rescues, so that the money can go to coffee and cake.

Private
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Claire wrote:
And you know there’s two types of mental health threads on vp. There’s generalized anxiety and depression threads which are honestly fine and there’s scary triggering threads about severe mental illness. If you had a special thread is it containing both?

Pusk
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Pusk wrote:

Claire wrote:
And you know there’s two types of mental health threads on vp. There’s generalized anxiety and depression threads which are honestly fine and there’s scary triggering threads about severe mental illness. If you had a special thread is it containing both?

It'd still be easier for the moderators to manage, so I am getting it'd be in the same thread.

Pusk
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Pusk wrote:

Claire wrote:
And you know there’s two types of mental health threads on vp. There’s generalized anxiety and depression threads which are honestly fine and there’s scary triggering threads about severe mental illness. If you had a special thread is it containing both?

It'd still be easier for the moderators to manage, so I am getting it'd be in the same thread.

Unless it is not PG 13, then it'd be in the mature recordlabel, I'd say

Private
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Claire wrote:

Pusk wrote:

Claire wrote:
And you know there’s two types of mental health threads on vp. There’s generalized anxiety and depression threads which are honestly fine and there’s scary triggering threads about severe mental illness. If you had a special thread is it containing both?

It'd still be easier for the moderators to manage, so I am getting it'd be in the same thread.

So girls with really normal anxiety could end up more sick by being influenced by peers who consistently talk about things like suicide. Mental health can be contagious especially for young girls.

Private
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Hennastii wrote:

Claire wrote:
And you know there’s two types of mental health threads on vp. There’s generalized anxiety and depression threads which are honestly fine and there’s scary triggering threads about severe mental illness. If you had a special thread is it containing both?

generalized anxiety disorder & depression can be severe as well
also if the most upsetting content would be a no-no, i think it would be okay if the thread contains both

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Rotte wrote:

Pusk wrote:

Macy wrote:

Pusk wrote:
Well, I wouldn't have stayed for the dress up. The community is somewhat better in my opinion - and sometimes that's dumb and silly, trolling subject. Topics about mental illness and period or what the hell not.

I mean i dont stay for that either, but i dont stay here to talk about mental health either.

Im here for the fun topics, the chats and what not. I personally look around the threads about mental health mostly. But not everyone can or would know before they are in them.

You don't go to school to get bullied or to bully. You don't get a job, so your boss can yell you in the face everyday. You don't donate to rescues, so that the money can go to coffee and cake.

Well thats because the bullying dont get controlled and u neither found a job with a good boss.

But if u are able to control it, i dont see why not

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Claire wrote:

Hennastii wrote:

Claire wrote:
And you know there’s two types of mental health threads on vp. There’s generalized anxiety and depression threads which are honestly fine and there’s scary triggering threads about severe mental illness. If you had a special thread is it containing both?

generalized anxiety disorder & depression can be severe as well
also if the most upsetting content would be a no-no, i think it would be okay if the thread contains both

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MissLondon
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MissLondon wrote:
I can't quote Pusk but as for a fair chance, you're right.

I don't think it should be on my dime tho. I pay for credits to buy cute clothes and other nonsense.

I'll create an acct on the server Kaj frequents. If he gives a mediocre dumb ass answer such as some in this thread, there's other sites to support and waste my money on lol

Pusk
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Pusk wrote:

Macy wrote:

Pusk wrote:

Macy wrote:
I mean i dont stay for that either, but i dont stay here to talk about mental health either.

Im here for the fun topics, the chats and what not. I personally look around the threads about mental health mostly. But not everyone can or would know before they are in them.

You don't go to school to get bullied or to bully. You don't get a job, so your boss can yell you in the face everyday. You don't donate to rescues, so that the money can go to coffee and cake.

Well thats because the bullying dont get controlled and u neither found a job with a good boss.

But if u are able to control it, i dont see why not

First of all, bullying don't get controlled, cus it is impossible. Secondly, not everyone is lucky with their bosses, jobs don't fall off the trees.

Pusk
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Pusk wrote:

RoloLolo wrote:
I can't quote Pusk but as for a fair chance, you're right.

I don't think it should be on my dime tho. I pay for credits to buy cute clothes and other nonsense.

I'll create an acct on the server Kaj frequents. If he gives a mediocre dumb ass answer such as some in this thread, there's other sites to support and waste my money on lol

Is it difficult to ignore the people who aint worth your time?

Pusk
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Pusk wrote:
Guys, I am sure they're considering more moderators, aswell as finding a way to organize it, so it'll be easier. It'll most likely get better, if they continue as they do. Don't worry too much