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So I posted this on the Dutch server as well, but I think people should know this.

If there's something going on about someone, it has to be posted on a topic. Everything has to be in public. If someone makes a mistake, mostly Kim and Kaj, it has to be in public, everyone has to know about it and has a opinion about it, without even knowing the situation. That counts for the users as well. If they make a mistake, it also has to be on a topic. I think that's getting annoying. Just message people in private about it, talk about it. It doesn't matter if you're a teenager or too young or whatever happened, just talk. It solves a lot!

I also think it doesn't show a lot of respect if you treat people like that. And I just wanted to say it here as well. I know there are a lot of nice people here and sometimes you don't have a click with each other, but just talk about it with each other, solve it or ignore each other. Don't embarress each other.

(I'm sorry, I don't know how to write embarres XD)

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Suchomimus wrote:
regarding ur last point
i think th whole point of a public thread is to be purposefully disrespectful, so i don't think ppl r gonna care that ur pointing that out
did that make sense

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I think that it's been going on too much, and people have started getting used to nothing being solved without extreme measures

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Suchomimus wrote:
regarding ur last point
i think th whole point of a public thread is to be purposefully disrespectful, so i don't think ppl r gonna care that ur pointing that out
did that make sense

It's sad that no one is willing to do something about it, isn't it? It's not very good for the mood around here.

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Asmi wrote:
I think that it's been going on too much, and people have started getting used to nothing being solved without extreme measures

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Koolaid wrote:
oh honey, if you saw how kim and kaj handled things and treated users you wouldn't say the same shit

it's been 3 years and the only reason vp has improved "slightly" is because kaj has stepped back from active engagement

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HAMARTIA wrote:
oh honey, if you saw how kim and kaj handled things and treated users you wouldn't say the same shit

it's been 3 years and the only reason vp has improved "slightly" is because kaj has stepped back from active engagement

Believe me, I KNOW how they are. I know how they handle, I really know more than you guys think. This is a new account, I'm not a new user. I just think that bad behaviour isn't the way to make things come true, to solve things. Its NOT.

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Swan wrote:
Yeah I totally feel you on this. Like the whole forum is spammed with useless threads and stuff. People hate/dislike each other without a proper reason, just because it was on the forum. I really dislike that about this website :/

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i mean when it comes to players, single people, not mods or the admin
i think public threads are offending then

but when it comes to someone who actually takes care of running the website the public threads should be okay? people need to know where they're spending time on and who's getting the benefits from it and such
there's nothing wrong with saying stuff out loud unless you're being offending on purpose and i know i've done that thanks for pointing out

for example my thread, which i think is also why you made this thread here. i never meant to be offending against kim or kaj. i wanted people to know that this thing has happened + i wanted to know if certain things are okay according to the rules OR according to the users

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Swan wrote:
Yeah I totally feel you on this. Like the whole forum is spammed with useless threads and stuff. People hate/dislike each other without a proper reason, just because it was on the forum. I really dislike that about this website :/

Yeah same. And obviously if you say something about it, people feel offended. Funny.

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Harness wrote:
oh u do this in public

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mmimousa wrote:
i mean when it comes to players, single people, not mods or the admin
i think public threads are offending then

but when it comes to someone who actually takes care of running the website the public threads should be okay? people need to know where they're spending time on and who's getting the benefits from it and such
there's nothing wrong with saying stuff out loud unless you're being offending on purpose and i know i've done that thanks for pointing out

for example my thread, which i think is also why you made this thread here never ment to be offending against kim or kaj. i wanted people to know that this thing has happened + i wanted to know if certain things are okay according to the rules OR according to the users

It's not especially because of you, but I see it SO many times on both of the servers I'm playing and I see that the mood is getting bad. I really know that there are many frustrations but this just isn't the way..

@Yes, yes I do.

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TheSkyIsTheLimit wrote:

mmimousa wrote:
i mean when it comes to players, single people, not mods or the admin
i think public threads are offending then

but when it comes to someone who actually takes care of running the website the public threads should be okay? people need to know where they're spending time on and who's getting the benefits from it and such
there's nothing wrong with saying stuff out loud unless you're being offending on purpose and i know i've done that thanks for pointing out

for example my thread, which i think is also why you made this thread here never ment to be offending against kim or kaj. i wanted people to know that this thing has happened + i wanted to know if certain things are okay according to the rules OR according to the users

It's not especially because of you, but I see it SO many times on both of the servers I'm playing and I see that the mood is getting bad. I really know that there are many frustrations but this just isn't the way..

@Yes, yes I do.

yeah i get that
but i mean if the threads are of the normal, basic users i find it more offending than when it's actually about the admin
i mean
she's running this website, people should know if things like what i mentoined have happened

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mmimousa wrote:

TheSkyIsTheLimit wrote:

mmimousa wrote:
i mean when it comes to players, single people, not mods or the admin
i think public threads are offending then

but when it comes to someone who actually takes care of running the website the public threads should be okay? people need to know where they're spending time on and who's getting the benefits from it and such
there's nothing wrong with saying stuff out loud unless you're being offending on purpose and i know i've done that thanks for pointing out

for example my thread, which i think is also why you made this thread here never ment to be offending against kim or kaj. i wanted people to know that this thing has happened + i wanted to know if certain things are okay according to the rules OR according to the users

It's not especially because of you, but I see it SO many times on both of the servers I'm playing and I see that the mood is getting bad. I really know that there are many frustrations but this just isn't the way..

@Yes, yes I do.

yeah i get that
but i mean if the threads are of the normal, basic users i find it more offending than when it's actually about the admin
i mean
she's running this website, people should know if things like what i mentoined have happened

I agree about that. It is more offending when it's about the users, but it doesn't change the situation. That's what I'm trying to point out. I don't want to offend any person who is doing this! <3

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tl;dr: if you say anything that isn't sugar coated sweetness about the mods at all you're hurting their feelings uwu

seriously though, are we not allowed to criticize site managers or