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Is it unhealthy
Teabag
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Teabag wrote:
Is it unhealthy to have the thought that you Have to be clean before you go outside the house?

Like ur hair is a lil greasy which makes u feel disgusting and you just feel like u have to take a shower first- even if you go outside specifically to do a thing that makes you sweaty.  Taking a shower first will make everything easier, is that "unhealthy" way of thinking?

Like yeah i get that it’s unnecessary af to do that but is it actually problematic??


/gen asking cus i dont see the problem and am wondering if i need a wakeup call?


Conclusion; It's not unhealthy bc it isnt compulsive. And as bonus im just bad at explaining
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Date: 18-08-2025 19:15 | Times changed: 2
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Maxwell wrote:
I mean, as long as it's not smthin standing heavily in ur way I wud say it's not unhleathy per say
Like ok so ur hair is a LIL greasy, and u cannot take a shower bcus ur water is off that day. Will this stop u from going out at all. Will u avoid going out bcus u cant have ur shower for ur barely greasy hair before going out for a sweat walk
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Date: 18-08-2025 19:27
Teabag
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Teabag wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
I mean, as long as it's not smthin standing heavily in ur way I wud say it's not unhleathy per say
Like ok so ur hair is a LIL greasy, and u cannot take a shower bcus ur water is off that day. Will this stop u from going out at all. Will u avoid going out bcus u cant have ur shower for ur barely greasy hair before going out for a sweat walk
If i absolutely had to go out like i desperately needed groceries yeah id go out without shower. I would feel shit but id do it 
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Date: 18-08-2025 19:52
Teabag
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Teabag wrote:
But if i was having a bad day in general then no i wouldnt step outside unless shower.. 
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Date: 18-08-2025 19:53
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bexxi wrote:
 sometimes i got shopping on the weekend with greasy hair because im not gonna shower for grocery store sry  @ lidl ..... but if it makes u feel too gross i would shower first. if not, then go for it.especially if u dont really plan to be out for long anyway ... 
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Date: 18-08-2025 20:47
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Maxwell wrote:
Teabag wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
I mean, as long as it's not smthin standing heavily in ur way I wud say it's not unhleathy per say
Like ok so ur hair is a LIL greasy, and u cannot take a shower bcus ur water is off that day. Will this stop u from going out at all. Will u avoid going out bcus u cant have ur shower for ur barely greasy hair before going out for a sweat walk
If i absolutely had to go out like i desperately needed groceries yeah id go out without shower. I would feel shit but id do it 
do u think it's dangerous to feel like shit

do u shower evry time u go out for ur walks
do u meet many ppl out on walks that kno who u r
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Date: 18-08-2025 21:32
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Maxwell wrote:
I guess on another note, if a friend of urs told u that they felt like this, what wud u say
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Date: 18-08-2025 21:36
Teabag
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Teabag wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
Teabag wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
I mean, as long as it's not smthin standing heavily in ur way I wud say it's not unhleathy per say
Like ok so ur hair is a LIL greasy, and u cannot take a shower bcus ur water is off that day. Will this stop u from going out at all. Will u avoid going out bcus u cant have ur shower for ur barely greasy hair before going out for a sweat walk
If i absolutely had to go out like i desperately needed groceries yeah id go out without shower. I would feel shit but id do it 
do u think it's dangerous to feel like shit

do u shower evry time u go out for ur walks
do u meet many ppl out on walks that kno who u r
No i just fuckin hate the feelin. I think it's like partly a sensory thing?
I wanted to take a shower before walking today, that’s what started it all. Like i hadnt showered for a couple of days so there was like a bunch of build up. So i felt disgusting and wanted shower but i know how unnecessary it is right before walk. But felt so 🤮 so brain went back and forth and paralized me not knowing what to do. 

I tried to explain to mom how i felt. And said something like "it just feels like theres too much of me on myself and that makes me feel yucky and i just gotta take a shower to restart"
And thats when she said that seems unhealthy... and i cant stop thinking abt it
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Date: 18-08-2025 23:24
Teabag
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Teabag wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
I guess on another note, if a friend of urs told u that they felt like this, what wud u say
"Same bestie!"
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Date: 18-08-2025 23:26
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Maxwell wrote:
Teabag wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
Teabag wrote:
If i absolutely had to go out like i desperately needed groceries yeah id go out without shower. I would feel shit but id do it 
do u think it's dangerous to feel like shit

do u shower evry time u go out for ur walks
do u meet many ppl out on walks that kno who u r
No i just fuckin hate the feelin. I think it's like partly a sensory thing?
I wanted to take a shower before walking today, that’s what started it all. Like i hadnt showered for a couple of days so there was like a bunch of build up. So i felt disgusting and wanted shower but i know how unnecessary it is right before walk. But felt so 🤮 so brain went back and forth and paralized me not knowing what to do. 

I tried to explain to mom how i felt. And said something like "it just feels like theres too much of me on myself and that makes me feel yucky and i just gotta take a shower to restart"
And thats when she said that seems unhealthy... and i cant stop thinking abt it
ooh I see Isee

giggl
I think ur mom just might've not known what ur mind was up to
u saying "there's too much of me on me" nd having to take a shower idk if u explained it another way mby she'd get it, cus she might read it as u thinkin u r wrong nd needing to clean it off 

so I take this as a simple misunderstanding. Wanting to feel clean is not a bad thing!
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Date: 18-08-2025 23:28 | Times changed: 1
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lain wrote:
Teabag wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
Teabag wrote:
If i absolutely had to go out like i desperately needed groceries yeah id go out without shower. I would feel shit but id do it 
do u think it's dangerous to feel like shit

do u shower evry time u go out for ur walks
do u meet many ppl out on walks that kno who u r
No i just fuckin hate the feelin. I think it's like partly a sensory thing?
I wanted to take a shower before walking today, that’s what started it all. Like i hadnt showered for a couple of days so there was like a bunch of build up. So i felt disgusting and wanted shower but i know how unnecessary it is right before walk. But felt so 🤮 so brain went back and forth and paralized me not knowing what to do. 

I tried to explain to mom how i felt. And said something like "it just feels like theres too much of me on myself and that makes me feel yucky and i just gotta take a shower to restart"
And thats when she said that seems unhealthy... and i cant stop thinking abt it
hmmm i think ur mom maybe misunderstood what u meant a bit??
i dont think thats unhealthy no, i feel like a lot of people want to shower before they go outside gfdjh but if its like a compulsive thing that you HAVE to do no matter what and its stopping you from going outside entirely or smth yeah that would be "unhealthy" 
but i agree with maxwell, wanting to feel clean is not a bad thing :3 
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Date: 18-08-2025 23:34
Teabag
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Teabag wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
Teabag wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
do u think it's dangerous to feel like shit

do u shower evry time u go out for ur walks
do u meet many ppl out on walks that kno who u r
No i just fuckin hate the feelin. I think it's like partly a sensory thing?
I wanted to take a shower before walking today, that’s what started it all. Like i hadnt showered for a couple of days so there was like a bunch of build up. So i felt disgusting and wanted shower but i know how unnecessary it is right before walk. But felt so 🤮 so brain went back and forth and paralized me not knowing what to do. 

I tried to explain to mom how i felt. And said something like "it just feels like theres too much of me on myself and that makes me feel yucky and i just gotta take a shower to restart"
And thats when she said that seems unhealthy... and i cant stop thinking abt it
ooh I see Isee

giggl
I think ur mom just might've not known what ur mind was up to
u saying "there's too much of me on me" nd having to take a shower idk if u explained it another way mby she'd get it, cus she might read it as u thinkin u r wrong nd needing to clean it off 

so I take this as a simple misunderstanding. Wanting to feel clean is not a bad thing!
Oh hmmm maybe it is a misunderstanding

But she knows in general that i hate going out without taking shower bc i feel disgusting and she has been a little "hmm do you really?" So when she asked why again today i tried to explain what my brain is telling me T_T 
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Date: 18-08-2025 23:37
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Maxwell wrote:
Teabag wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
Teabag wrote:
No i just fuckin hate the feelin. I think it's like partly a sensory thing?
I wanted to take a shower before walking today, that’s what started it all. Like i hadnt showered for a couple of days so there was like a bunch of build up. So i felt disgusting and wanted shower but i know how unnecessary it is right before walk. But felt so 🤮 so brain went back and forth and paralized me not knowing what to do. 

I tried to explain to mom how i felt. And said something like "it just feels like theres too much of me on myself and that makes me feel yucky and i just gotta take a shower to restart"
And thats when she said that seems unhealthy... and i cant stop thinking abt it
ooh I see Isee

giggl
I think ur mom just might've not known what ur mind was up to
u saying "there's too much of me on me" nd having to take a shower idk if u explained it another way mby she'd get it, cus she might read it as u thinkin u r wrong nd needing to clean it off 

so I take this as a simple misunderstanding. Wanting to feel clean is not a bad thing!
Oh hmmm maybe it is a misunderstanding

But she knows in general that i hate going out without taking shower bc i feel disgusting and she has been a little "hmm do you really?" So when she asked why again today i tried to explain what my brain is telling me T_T 
u r bad at explaining

but I get it 
bcus sometimes I try explainin things to my parents nd their responses Im like ??? but I think it rlly is just bcus they r not in our head nd can't truly understand
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Date: 18-08-2025 23:43
Teabag
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Teabag wrote:
lain wrote:
Teabag wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
do u think it's dangerous to feel like shit

do u shower evry time u go out for ur walks
do u meet many ppl out on walks that kno who u r
No i just fuckin hate the feelin. I think it's like partly a sensory thing?
I wanted to take a shower before walking today, that’s what started it all. Like i hadnt showered for a couple of days so there was like a bunch of build up. So i felt disgusting and wanted shower but i know how unnecessary it is right before walk. But felt so 🤮 so brain went back and forth and paralized me not knowing what to do. 

I tried to explain to mom how i felt. And said something like "it just feels like theres too much of me on myself and that makes me feel yucky and i just gotta take a shower to restart"
And thats when she said that seems unhealthy... and i cant stop thinking abt it
hmmm i think ur mom maybe misunderstood what u meant a bit??
i dont think thats unhealthy no, i feel like a lot of people want to shower before they go outside gfdjh but if its like a compulsive thing that you HAVE to do no matter what and its stopping you from going outside entirely or smth yeah that would be "unhealthy" 
but i agree with maxwell, wanting to feel clean is not a bad thing :3 
Okay good thank you ToT
I really needed to hear this cus i genuinely couldn't think how it would be wrong to wanna be clean. But if it was unhealthy thinkin i would hav to rewire my brain

Thank u thank u I can breathe 
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Date: 18-08-2025 23:47
Teabag
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Teabag wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
Teabag wrote:
Maxwell wrote:
ooh I see Isee

giggl
I think ur mom just might've not known what ur mind was up to
u saying "there's too much of me on me" nd having to take a shower idk if u explained it another way mby she'd get it, cus she might read it as u thinkin u r wrong nd needing to clean it off 

so I take this as a simple misunderstanding. Wanting to feel clean is not a bad thing!
Oh hmmm maybe it is a misunderstanding

But she knows in general that i hate going out without taking shower bc i feel disgusting and she has been a little "hmm do you really?" So when she asked why again today i tried to explain what my brain is telling me T_T 
u r bad at explaining

but I get it 
bcus sometimes I try explainin things to my parents nd their responses Im like ??? but I think it rlly is just bcus they r not in our head nd can't truly understand

Oh 100% i really dig a hole filled w crap explaining and then double down and make the most random shit up just to try understanding my brain myself
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Date: 18-08-2025 23:51
Lamby
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Lamby wrote:
If your hair is really greasy then it is normal, I have the exact same. It only becomes an issue when you start getting these feelings for smaller and smaller things. If it is just for this I wouldn't worry too much about it
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