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am I being mean?
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
I don't want to give my friend a birthday gift because she didn't give me one. I told her this and she has told me after I don't have to give her anything so no problem really but she really wanted a specific thing and told me she didn't give me anything because I couldn't see her on my birthday. She also can't see me on her birthday but wanted to meet up before so I could give her this thing.

Also she has told me that she can't see me this entire month because she's busy but suddenly she is available on 5 different days so I can give her her birthday gift.
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Date: 07-07-2026 13:56
Private
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Eliah wrote:
I don’t think she’s actually your friend, sounds more like she’s using you.
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Date: 07-07-2026 14:07
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Eliah wrote:
I don’t think she’s actually your friend, sounds more like she’s using you.
She said she's not using me and that she didn't want me to feel that way so I don't have to give her anything
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Date: 07-07-2026 14:10
Aske
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Aske wrote:
not mean no, just transactional. but from what you're saying that seems fair, if she's telling you what she wants and wants to meet up, while simultaneously telling you that you don't have to get her something she's speaking with two tongues, reads like manipulation to me
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Date: 07-07-2026 14:18
Callisto
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Callisto wrote:
What is the point in asking for a gift she has already decided on? They are supposed to be a surprise. It sounds like she just ordered smt but you would be paying. I would not give her anything. 
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Date: 07-07-2026 14:29
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
she seems upset that I won't give her a birthday gift even if she said I didn't need to. I asked her why she's upset if she says I don't need to but she hasn't answered yet
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Date: 07-07-2026 15:15
MissLondon
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MissLondon wrote:
I’ve never withheld a gift
just because I couldn’t meet with someone on their birthday 

Sometimes you have to remind people 
that you’re the gift 
I would meet her…wearing a bow
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Date: 07-07-2026 15:17
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
now suddenly she can't meet anymore lol. because I'm not giving her a gift
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Date: 07-07-2026 15:17
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
she said goodbye she doesn't want to talk anymore. For someone that claims it's ok not to get her a gift she sure isn't acting like that
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Date: 07-07-2026 15:18
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Melody wrote:
yeah based on what you've said here she sounds extremely manipulative,, i would perhaps cut the ties 
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Date: 07-07-2026 15:18
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
I said that I am not arguing and that I'm not giving her anything and she should accept that. Now she is claiming she has already accepted that. If so then why is she arguing about it
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Date: 07-07-2026 15:24
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
She said that it was an unnecessary comment that I brought up that she didn't give me anything.
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Date: 07-07-2026 15:27
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
I’ve never withheld a gift
just because I couldn’t meet with someone on their birthday 

Sometimes you have to remind people 
that you’re the gift 
I would meet her…wearing a bow
That is what is confusing me because she also says we can't meet on her birthday. 
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Date: 07-07-2026 15:42
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Melody wrote:
yeah based on what you've said here she sounds extremely manipulative,, i would perhaps cut the ties 
I have thought about that for many reasons
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Date: 07-07-2026 15:43
Callisto
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Callisto wrote:
Is she only talking about getting her gift when you plan to meet? No celebration or having fun together? Just, let's meet up so I can get my gift and see you never? Sounds pretty childish and see through. I would never just ask my friend for a certain gift and expect to get it...you are not her parent.  
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Date: 07-07-2026 16:03
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
Callisto wrote:
Is she only talking about getting her gift when you plan to meet? No celebration or having fun together? Just, let's meet up so I can get my gift and see you never? Sounds pretty childish and see through. I would never just ask my friend for a certain gift and expect to get it...you are not her parent.  
Yes. Now that I have said I don't want to give her anything she has said she can't meet me this week or next week anymore.
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Date: 07-07-2026 16:04
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