pastelice wrote:Quinzelle wrote:
It's normally after we've joked a lot and I know that I can have banter with them without them getting upset.
However - I find that, because that happens, I become seen as more of "one of the guys" / just a friend.
thaaat orrr I offend them/undermine their "masculinity" and they run away
ahh that usually never happens to me
i don't tend to joke like that with a guy i like
guys i don't like as a crush, sure.
but not the dood i like
.. right