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Are You In The Right Headspace To
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Troublemaker wrote:
Claire wrote:
this is worded like they about to insult me lmao
u got that right...... 
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:24
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kruspersille wrote:
Nesta wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
wasnt there a thread about this exact thing
or was it a similar text
There was, but there's too little activity on this site to be picky.
can u link it i cant find it
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:25 | Times changed: 1
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Flamink wrote:
i dont like how formal it sounds?? it honestly sounds like they're about to insult my very existence lmao

something like "do you have time to talk about something serious?" or something like that would be a bit better i think..?
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:26
Junkiekid
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junkiekid wrote:
that looks creepy..

also what would be the point of sending that text? like even if i wasn't in the mood i would still want to know what information you have that can hurt me or else i'm gonna go around be paranoid about every little thing
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:27
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Troublemaker wrote:
Flamink wrote:
i dont like how formal it sounds?? it honestly sounds like they're about to insult my very existence lmao

something like "do you have time to talk about something serious?" or something like that would be a bit better i think..?
true!!
whenever i want to talk about something a bit sensitive or ....  ?? graphic ??
i tell them in advance and like "is it okay if i rant about something?" n then explain like context or if its serious or smth
i agree w u 
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:28
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Troublemaker wrote:
Josten wrote:
why hurt ur friends to begin with

like, i understand the situation if it’s an emotional conversation where the other part won’t be able to mentally accept it, due to dealing with their own things. but if it’s things that can hurt ur friend ??? what the fuck is wrong w u
i think it's on the "this might be triggering" way
because this whole thing went viral on twitter and the context was how to rant/break things down to your friend
but like ??????? either way if the intention is not to hurt them this whole template is just not IT 
ooh, right
hmm well.. if I was in a bad place and needed to rant or anything, I’d more ask like ”hey, im not feeling well right now, is it okay if i can talk about it or are you dealing with your own things?” 
Date: 06-12-2019 22:28
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Caramelia wrote:
honestly the more I think about it the more empathy I see in the message. Like imagine if the receiver were depressed and simply couldn't take listening to other problems sometimes? 

I think it's a culture thing too. I'm very close to my friends, so I would probably state it differently, but they may just have another kind of friendship? idk
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:29 | Times changed: 1
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Troublemaker wrote:
junkiekid wrote:
that looks creepy..

also what would be the point of sending that text? like even if i wasn't in the mood i would still want to know what information you have that can hurt me or else i'm gonna go around be paranoid about every little thing
it does.....

exactly!! even if i was in the "right headspace" that message would yeet me into the wrong direction lol 
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:30
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Liilian wrote:
if someone was to say something that might hurt me, the last thing i want is a goddamn warning about the shitload i'm about the recieve? just let i out

and if the person then said no, you'il sit there wanting to tell your friend what is wrong, but you can't, and then it's just bugging u

like just no
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:30
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wrote:
Troublemaker wrote:
Eis wrote:
i think it's bullshit,, because then no convo would feel honest nor natural ?

like sry to admit but u can't be pleased with everything u hear / see / read, that's just how it is

i don't want people to ask that?? i would be sooo pissed off that they would assume something like that

!!!!!! exactly
there's no .. .. NOTHING there
no empathy, no sign of personality or love, it's just... "a template"

assume what? 
yep ughh

i mean assume that u wouldn't be in the right headspace to begin with,,
Date: 06-12-2019 22:31
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Troublemaker wrote:
Eis wrote:
Troublemaker wrote:
Eis wrote:
i think it's bullshit,, because then no convo would feel honest nor natural ?

like sry to admit but u can't be pleased with everything u hear / see / read, that's just how it is

i don't want people to ask that?? i would be sooo pissed off that they would assume something like that

!!!!!! exactly
there's no .. .. NOTHING there
no empathy, no sign of personality or love, it's just... "a template"

assume what? 
yep ughh

i mean assume that u wouldn't be in the right headspace to begin with,,
OHHH okay now i see ur point
ye i wouldn't want that : |||||| just ask if u can rant or not dAMN 
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:31
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Bloodflowers wrote:
i'd be very annoyed actually
because
1. if i wasn't does the person really think i'd say no?? of course i would want to know
2. i hate conversations that start with needing to talk about something serious etc etc like just say it instead of making me anxious and wait for a reply expecting the worst. i honestly think its worse to wait and not know whats going on instead of getting it unexpectatly
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:32
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wrote:
Troublemaker wrote:
Eis wrote:
Troublemaker wrote:

!!!!!! exactly
there's no .. .. NOTHING there
no empathy, no sign of personality or love, it's just... "a template"

assume what? 
yep ughh

i mean assume that u wouldn't be in the right headspace to begin with,,
OHHH okay now i see ur point
ye i wouldn't want that : |||||| just ask if u can rant or not dAMN 
yeah exactly ! like why do people like to complicate it knjbhvgcf!
Date: 06-12-2019 22:32
Bloodflowers
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Bloodflowers wrote:
also is this like a new twitter trend? learning people how to text
or something
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:33
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Samfie wrote:
a message like that would mess with my head, def.. but actually, i'd prefer a message like that this time around, if i'll get something dumped on me, because I don't mind dumping haha, but I'm def not in a healthy, optimal headspace (not permanently)
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:34
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