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makes me think they r gonna tell me they brutally murdered my cat or some shit
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:35
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kruspersille wrote:
i might be the one with the unpopular opinion here but i dont mind the "warning"
its worded badly for sure, but the act of asking if im okay listening to ur rant, like it obviously shows they care
sometimes i dont wanna read abt ur problems uknow
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:36
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Bloodflowers wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
i might be the one with the unpopular opinion here but i dont mind the "warning"
its worded badly for sure, but the act of asking if im okay listening to ur rant, like it obviously shows they care
sometimes i dont wanna read abt ur problems uknow
i got nothing in the text about it being about themselves or them needing to rant
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:37
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kruspersille wrote:
Bloodflowers wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
i might be the one with the unpopular opinion here but i dont mind the "warning"
its worded badly for sure, but the act of asking if im okay listening to ur rant, like it obviously shows they care
sometimes i dont wanna read abt ur problems uknow
i got nothing in the text about it being about themselves or them needing to rant
oh well
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:38
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kruspersille wrote:
wasnt there a thread about this exact thing
or was it a similar text

similar, the idea of the other one was that the information could be not hurtful but triggering, this one is worded even more weirdly. i'm guessing it's saying the information isn't just triggering but specific to that person? 

this is the other one 


it's all bs imo. who talks to their friends like this.
Date: 06-12-2019 22:39
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wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
i might be the one with the unpopular opinion here but i dont mind the "warning"
its worded badly for sure, but the act of asking if im okay listening to ur rant, like it obviously shows they care
sometimes i dont wanna read abt ur problems uknow
yeah it's not the act, it's the way they're going about it
Date: 06-12-2019 22:41
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kruspersille wrote:
Dracarys wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
wasnt there a thread about this exact thing
or was it a similar text

similar, the idea of the other one was that the information could be not hurtful but triggering, this one is worded even more weirdly. i'm guessing it's saying the information isn't just triggering but specific to that person? 

this is the other one 


it's all bs imo. who talks to their friends like this.
oh yeah thats the one!
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:41
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kruspersille wrote:
Dracarys wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
i might be the one with the unpopular opinion here but i dont mind the "warning"
its worded badly for sure, but the act of asking if im okay listening to ur rant, like it obviously shows they care
sometimes i dont wanna read abt ur problems uknow
yeah it's not the act, it's the way they're going about it
tbh is someone wrote that to me word for word id just assume theyre bad at english

this bc im not a native english speaker nor are my friends so why would they need to write it in english
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Date: 06-12-2019 22:42 | Times changed: 2
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skeIeton wrote:
is the idea of askin a friend if it'd be cool to talk instead of just dumpin on them SO fuckin foreign to ppl they need to be given these weird, sterile copy/paste messages to send? (i mean im hoping it's a basic idea that people are meant to put into their own words but the more i see of these the more it seems like it's not)

like...is it that hard to just say "hey, there's sth i'd like to talk to someone about, but i dont wanna dump it on u out of nowhere. would it be cool if we talked? if not it's fine, i don't wanna burden u if ur not up for it"
is this not just a normal part of how a lot of folks interact with ppl? i thought it was common sense/courtesy idgi


god this really is the worst one i've seen too. the way its worded it comes off as fucking creepy. like serial killer in a slasher movie calling u up "do you wanna watch a scary movie" type stuff like who the FUCK words it as "that might hurt u" instead of "could be triggering/is heavy" lmao creepy

like did a robot write this shit? "hello human S5-07XHJ, i have information to deliver to u but it may cause u to feel unpleasant physically, mentally, emotionally or a combination thereof. do you wish to hear the information now, or would you like to postpone until a later date? please select an option: 'receive news now' - 'remind me of message in [dropdown box of numbers] hours'"
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Date: 06-12-2019 23:00 | Times changed: 1
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skeIeton wrote:
Josten wrote:
Troublemaker wrote:
Josten wrote:
why hurt ur friends to begin with

like, i understand the situation if it’s an emotional conversation where the other part won’t be able to mentally accept it, due to dealing with their own things. but if it’s things that can hurt ur friend ??? what the fuck is wrong w u
i think it's on the "this might be triggering" way
because this whole thing went viral on twitter and the context was how to rant/break things down to your friend
but like ??????? either way if the intention is not to hurt them this whole template is just not IT 
ooh, right
hmm well.. if I was in a bad place and needed to rant or anything, I’d more ask like ”hey, im not feeling well right now, is it okay if i can talk about it or are you dealing with your own things?” 
YES THANK YOU! damn i was like "am i the only person who would already ask if it's okay to vent or smth wtf?"
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Date: 06-12-2019 23:05
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Empulla wrote:
i don't like that, just say it
i hate being anxious
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Date: 06-12-2019 23:17
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Xemnas wrote:
Personally I know people who talk like this and i personally format hard to talk about things (not in this kind of way ofc) and like... idk. it's a hard thing to talk about bc as someone in the autism spectrum this is a kinda of common thing ? So I see it a lot and don't really think twice bc I understand how hard it is to like....try and message someone about things like that
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Date: 06-12-2019 23:20
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ouch wrote:
I dont like 
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Date: 06-12-2019 23:23
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ad0xa wrote:
I've already answered this in another thread about this exact topic.

But to add to whatever I wrote there: I'd feel bit put off by it. Like. Are we even friends? wtf? And if someone expected me to ask that to them, I would be even more put off by it. XD  

I think it's bad that it's spreading across the internet bc I don't want it to become a thing people expect.

If it's under special circumstances, sure. But I feel like, generally. No, please. 
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Date: 06-12-2019 23:28
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Laboratory wrote:
I'd rather people just stfu completely,,,,
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Date: 06-12-2019 23:30
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