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Claire wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Claire wrote:
half the site has it
Not sure if you were serious so I kinda feel bad that I chuckled 
half serious
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Date: 12-06-2020 22:28
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wug wrote:
Nesta wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
Nesta wrote:
do you include yourself in that one?

You have to explain your pink era somehow and still waiting for that explanation to wtf went down
And the people of vp has to explain why they are like they are I'm like bruh excuse me, why on earth would I need to explain anything while the rest acts like that constantly? 
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Date: 12-06-2020 22:30
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Claire wrote:
real talk theres a lot of people on this site who have a diagnosis of bpd- and i'd even argue that MOST people on vp have SOME kind of psychiatric diagnosis (or SHOULD have one or are TRYING to get one) who can relate to what youre going thru. sorry to start a dumbass debate i was just tryna say that you aint alone here in a more jokey way.
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Date: 12-06-2020 22:31
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MissLondon wrote:
Claire wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Claire wrote:
half the site has it
Not sure if you were serious so I kinda feel bad that I chuckled 
half serious
Ok, make that a half chuckle then
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Date: 12-06-2020 22:32
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MissLondon wrote:
Nesta wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
Nesta wrote:
do you include yourself in that one?

You have to explain your pink era somehow and still waiting for that explanation to wtf went down
After the first day, I lost interest and thought, "live yo life" so no explanation needed for me
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Date: 12-06-2020 22:35
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Claire wrote:
real talk theres a lot of people on this site who have a diagnosis of bpd- and i'd even argue that MOST people on vp have SOME kind of psychiatric diagnosis (or SHOULD have one or are TRYING to get one) who can relate to what youre going thru. sorry to start a dumbass debate i was just tryna say that you aint alone here in a more jokey way.
Das true, vp really do b a mental illness get together point 
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Date: 12-06-2020 22:36
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Pavlov wrote:
Claire wrote:
real talk theres a lot of people on this site who have a diagnosis of bpd- and i'd even argue that MOST people on vp have SOME kind of psychiatric diagnosis (or SHOULD have one or are TRYING to get one) who can relate to what youre going thru. sorry to start a dumbass debate i was just tryna say that you aint alone here in a more jokey way.
are you the have or the should claire
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Date: 12-06-2020 22:38
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wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:
Nesta wrote:
Snusmumrikken wrote:

You have to explain your pink era somehow and still waiting for that explanation to wtf went down
And the people of vp has to explain why they are like they are I'm like bruh excuse me, why on earth would I need to explain anything while the rest acts like that constantly? 
i don't think others behaviors means u don't have to explain ur own but yeah
Date: 12-06-2020 23:09
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Claire wrote:
Pavlov wrote:
Claire wrote:
real talk theres a lot of people on this site who have a diagnosis of bpd- and i'd even argue that MOST people on vp have SOME kind of psychiatric diagnosis (or SHOULD have one or are TRYING to get one) who can relate to what youre going thru. sorry to start a dumbass debate i was just tryna say that you aint alone here in a more jokey way.
are you the have or the should claire

i consider the major depressive disorder that i was diagnosed with as a teenager to be in remission because its been eleven years since my last suicide attempt. i'm still on medication for it and see my therapist as needed. i expect that i'll be in and out of therapy for the rest of my life so i won't say i've recovered- but that's a term that some might use to describe the place that i'm in today- despite what can only be described as my arrested development. i prefer the term 'remission' when talking about my diagnosis of depression. but i'm pretty sure you already knew that and you're just asking to try and embarrass me or something? when i say many of us on vp should have a diagnosis- i mean that in a very genuine way becuase i truly beleive that the right diagnosis is a great tool to helping a person live their best life and theres too many of us on vp that arent living our best lives. if you can accurately describe the problem you can find the best solution. a lot of you guys say shit that sounds like me when i was a kid and i know how much that sucks and i wish for everyone who feels that way to get the same kind of help that i got.
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Date: 12-06-2020 23:11
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I do yeah
Date: 12-06-2020 23:17
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Raquelle wrote:
i’ve been thinking of whether i have bpd or not for years now. i really don’t know if i should seek for some help because it might be that i was just depressed from time to time and i’m now super fine and myself. But it just feels like i’m always either doing too well or way too bad... it fucking sucks. i have no diagnosis for anything even though i have had very very dark times in my life, i just didn’t seek for any help. 
i’ve been too afraid to admit this thought to anyone except my closest friends. 

sorry for the rant in the middle of this thread i just idk needed to say it out loud..? 
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Date: 12-06-2020 23:19
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Specter wrote:
Raquelle wrote:
i’ve been thinking of whether i have bpd or not for years now. i really don’t know if i should seek for some help because it might be that i was just depressed from time to time and i’m now super fine and myself. But it just feels like i’m always either doing too well or way too bad... it fucking sucks. i have no diagnosis for anything even though i have had very very dark times in my life, i just didn’t seek for any help. 
i’ve been too afraid to admit this thought to anyone except my closest friends. 

sorry for the rant in the middle of this thread i just idk needed to say it out loud..? 

if you have it and are able to get help, i seriously recommend it. when i was first diagnosed i didn't realize that half of the shit i was doing was manipulative (one of the many fun side effects /s for the fun part) and anger management untangled nearly every issue that'd been keeping me from connecting with others
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Date: 12-06-2020 23:29
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BunnyButts wrote:
Chocolata wrote:
Does anyone on here have bpd? I went to therapy for almost a year now and this week, my therapist said that I have it. It's not a shock as I suspected it but some input and advice from others would be greatly appreciated.
I only have two friends, everyone else left me because of their own problems or my shitty behavior and I'm unsure how to make new friends or how to become a functioning human being.

Thanks for any info or advice
I have diagnosed bpd, it's hard but I'm happy to help you with everything and anything <3
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Date: 12-06-2020 23:31
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Specter wrote:
anyways, not sure what specifically you'd want advice with, but from my experience:

-your first few sessions aren't going to fix everything. i made the appointments during a manic episode, and spent the first three sessions basically using my therapist as my verbal punching bag and then the fourth basically crying to her that i was a shit person in an attempt to guilt her into giving me the clear (neither of which things were acceptable) . you'll learn shit like how to apologize, how to unpack logical vs illogical thoughts, and how to handle legitimate instances of being abandoned/hurt in a healthy manner

-if you lean to the manic/angry side, ask to focus on anger management as well as other practices if they don't already do so. as i said above, i spent the first three sessions angry for no reason (therapist didn't want me going back to college, i felt like she was intentionally trying to drag me behind to make me look dumb) and it wasn't until i started my anger management that i was able to make any progress
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Date: 12-06-2020 23:40
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BunnyButts wrote:
Specter wrote:
Raquelle wrote:
i’ve been thinking of whether i have bpd or not for years now. i really don’t know if i should seek for some help because it might be that i was just depressed from time to time and i’m now super fine and myself. But it just feels like i’m always either doing too well or way too bad... it fucking sucks. i have no diagnosis for anything even though i have had very very dark times in my life, i just didn’t seek for any help. 
i’ve been too afraid to admit this thought to anyone except my closest friends. 

sorry for the rant in the middle of this thread i just idk needed to say it out loud..? 

if you have it and are able to get help, i seriously recommend it. when i was first diagnosed i didn't realize that half of the shit i was doing was manipulative (one of the many fun side effects /s for the fun part) and anger management untangled nearly every issue that'd been keeping me from connecting with others

It's one of the things I always over think about is being manipulative, It's even worse rn I can't see a therapist and so I'm just stuck psychoanalyzing myself /)-(\
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Date: 12-06-2020 23:46
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