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MissLondon wrote:
I would take it one day at a time and just do random things... It doesn't matter
For example
I'd wake up tomorrow, grab my guitar, blanket, food whatever and  jam at the park. It wouldn't matter who's watching/listening (people might start chatting with you) but you get the idea

I know it's not a lot but sometimes the only thing you can do is think to yourself, "this is shitty but I'm still here" or whatever mantra works for you. 
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scoff wrote:
disintegration wrote:
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Hm learn web design? It's very rewarding and you can learn how to code a simple website in like 2 hrs
maybe
where can i learn that? 
codecademy has a free HTML course and I think CSS too 
But really just google free courses there are some and Youtube Videos too! 
i'll look that up! last time i tried it was boring af but even so it could definitely be useful if not now then at some point
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scoff wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
I would take it one day at a time and just do random things... It doesn't matter
For example
I'd wake up tomorrow, grab my guitar, blanket, food whatever and  jam at the park. It wouldn't matter who's watching/listening (people might start strategy) but you get the idea

I know it's not a lot but sometimes the only thing you can do is think to yourself, "this is shitty but I'm still here" or whatever mantra works for you. 
i should try that approach to live i guess but everything i do feels so forced
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bake cinnamon buns
Date: 15-06-2020 23:23
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scoff wrote:
k apparently that coding stuff costs money
i don't have money
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scoff wrote:
Nesta wrote:
bake cinnamon buns
i would do that too if i had an oven but i don't 
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
scoff wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
scoff wrote:
but like, what else can i try?

i've tried writing, turns out i don't have the concentration skills for that
i've tried reading, it can be nice at times if i find a real good book but like it's not something i want to spend too much time on
i've tried photographing but it was just plain boring
i tried geocaching, felt... unnecessary?
i tried running but then i remembered i can't run because i keep tripping over my own feet
actually, i'm very bad at anything and everything that has to do with sports or physical exercise because my gross motor skills for some reason ain't all there all the time eh
i quit music because it started to feel like a chore and it also just made me miserable
then the only hobby i had left was drinking but i'm not gonna do that so much anymore
concentration can be learnt . like if u just do small things every day even for like ten minutes eventually u might start enjoying them more/being able to them for longer. write for like a little bit, even if u cant do it for long. try some yoga youtube videos. even if ur 'bad' at physical exercise it is still good for u n there are so many different kinds. download duolingo n start learning a new language. pick a topic u want to know about and learn about it in DEPTH using different sources (books, youtube videos). read different types of books u have never tried reading before, watch different films to the ones u usually watch.. if u do all of these things even just for a TINY bit each day ur days might start feeling nicer.
i know it can, but i still have this sense that everything i do is worthless if it only includes me and no one else shares it, you know? if that makes sense. take music for example - it's simply not fun anymore because since when is it fun to just sit on your own and play your guitar to yourself? i don't know. that's a problem i have. everything i do for me and me only feels fake and ridiculous. 
i understand. i think ive heard u say this before. i used to feel like that too. i dont know how to make u realise that everything that u do for u and only u is like... the opposite of fake and ridiculous . it is kind of what makes life worth living lol. the point of all of these things isnt the end result or showing ppl the end result, it is the creative process itself

write some new songs, record urself singing, post urself singing here ! i remember u having a nice voice. learn how to use music editing software like fl studio or logic pro. that might be fun if u are musical at all. the thing is , everything WILL seem hard and boring at first. and then it wont. and then u wont care that ur just doing it by urself because it will feel good doing it
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Delusion1111111 wrote:
trust me i KNOW about how much it sucks trying new things and not being able to concentrate and finding it really difficult and boring as a result. but like u literally just have to push thru it and do small things constantly, taking each day as it comes n dedicating even 10, 15 minutes to these things because it IS worthwhile 
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Date: 15-06-2020 23:25
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Claire wrote:
scoff wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
I would take it one day at a time and just do random things... It doesn't matter
For example
I'd wake up tomorrow, grab my guitar, blanket, food whatever and  jam at the park. It wouldn't matter who's watching/listening (people might start strategy) but you get the idea

I know it's not a lot but sometimes the only thing you can do is think to yourself, "this is shitty but I'm still here" or whatever mantra works for you. 
i should try that approach to live i guess but everything i do feels so forced

i think "One day at a time" would be a great mantra for you right now really 

you been talking a lot about all the things you want for yourself and the future and thats great but you cant live your whole life RIGHT NOW and you know it.

and if taking things one day at a time is even too much you can go an hour at a time. ten minutes at a time.  
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scoff wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
scoff wrote:
Delusion1111111 wrote:
concentration can be learnt . like if u just do small things every day even for like ten minutes eventually u might start enjoying them more/being able to them for longer. write for like a little bit, even if u cant do it for long. try some yoga youtube videos. even if ur 'bad' at physical exercise it is still good for u n there are so many different kinds. download duolingo n start learning a new language. pick a topic u want to know about and learn about it in DEPTH using different sources (books, youtube videos). read different types of books u have never tried reading before, watch different films to the ones u usually watch.. if u do all of these things even just for a TINY bit each day ur days might start feeling nicer.
i know it can, but i still have this sense that everything i do is worthless if it only includes me and no one else shares it, you know? if that makes sense. take music for example - it's simply not fun anymore because since when is it fun to just sit on your own and play your guitar to yourself? i don't know. that's a problem i have. everything i do for me and me only feels fake and ridiculous. 
i understand. i think ive heard u say this before. i used to feel like that too. i dont know how to make u realise that everything that u do for u and only u is like... the opposite of fake and ridiculous . it is kind of what makes life worth living lol. the point of all of these things isnt the end result or showing ppl the end result, it is the creative process itself

write some new songs, record urself singing, post urself singing here ! i remember u having a nice voice. learn how to use music editing software like fl studio or logic pro. that might be fun if u are musical at all. the thing is , everything WILL seem hard and boring at first. and then it wont. and then u wont care that ur just doing it by urself because it will feel good doing it
yeah i mean i'm pretty sure i've been saying that since like... forever? or at least since i was 12 lol
and yes, i believe you. it's not fake if you truly do it for you, but for me i'm not ever truly doing anything
it's all for show, otherwise i woulda most likely just spent all day every day in my bed 

i mean i have logic pro x and i know how to use it but i need some shit to make it work and i can't afford that right now

and that's my problem. if something feels hard and boring i have no motivation whatsoever to do it. 
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Medusa wrote:
scoff wrote:
Nami wrote:
drink alcohol and cry, why? 
mmh yeah idk i'm thinking about getting another approach to things
also i kinda can't afford alcohol anyway + continuing drinking all the time probably defeats my purpose 
me too but that's what i used to do
mostly cuz i was depressed af.

but understandable. that's good for ya
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scoff wrote:
Claire wrote:
scoff wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
I would take it one day at a time and just do random things... It doesn't matter
For example
I'd wake up tomorrow, grab my guitar, blanket, food whatever and  jam at the park. It wouldn't matter who's watching/listening (people might start strategy) but you get the idea

I know it's not a lot but sometimes the only thing you can do is think to yourself, "this is shitty but I'm still here" or whatever mantra works for you. 
i should try that approach to live i guess but everything i do feels so forced

i think "One day at a time" would be a great mantra for you right now really 

you been talking a lot about all the things you want for yourself and the future and thats great but you cant live your whole life RIGHT NOW and you know it.

and if taking things one day at a time is even too much you can go an hour at a time. ten minutes at a time.  
k i'm gonna come off as stupid here, but i actually truly don't even know what that means
you know, to take one day at a time? i sorta know what people mean, but i've no idea how to practically do it
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scoff wrote:
Nami wrote:
scoff wrote:
Nami wrote:
drink alcohol and cry, why? 
mmh yeah idk i'm thinking about getting another approach to things
also i kinda can't afford alcohol anyway + continuing drinking all the time probably defeats my purpose 
me too but that's what i used to do
mostly cuz i was depressed af.

but understandable. that's good for ya
maybe my entire life is me being depressed without even knowing it
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Raquelle wrote:
i just vibe
i do whatever comes to my mind when i have free time
watch all the super overrated and referenced movies just so i get the jokes in the simpsons
i learned some butterfly knife tricks for fun
and i got old xbox 360 from my friend and learned to play gta
and now i’ve learning how to paint
i like going outside and just draw even though i wouldn’t draw anything i liked
and i’m trying to learn to do a backflip and walk with my hands
I want to learn how to pick locks too
so much useless shit to do i love it all 
the key is trying to do it stress free with no goals and time limits

i hope you’ll learn to do stuff on your own and enjoy your own company because you honestly seem like such a good company you know
i’d love to hang out with you 
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scoff wrote:
Nesta wrote:
bake cinnamon buns
i would do that too if i had an oven but i don't 
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Date: 15-06-2020 23:30
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