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it's been 5 weeks and i might be in danger
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scoff wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
I'm glad you're improving! Have you gone to therapy over this?
not really, no
i talked to someone twice but then decided "fuck it, i'm fine" 
i discuss it with a good friend of mine who's been in the same situation every now and then
she's great
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Date: 28-06-2020 17:57
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BunnyButts wrote:
scoff wrote:
BunnyButts wrote:
I'm glad you're improving! Have you gone to therapy over this?
not really, no
i talked to someone twice but then decided "fuck it, i'm fine" 
i discuss it with a good friend of mine who's been in the same situation every now and then
she's great
Friends are great support but I've also found comfort in turning to someone who's trained to understand you know? but it comes down to what you're comfortable with
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Date: 28-06-2020 18:00
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BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
I get pretty serious with this stuff; don't wait to get a restraining order. If you wait, someday he'll do something really bad. Get a restraining order ASAP, and if it's possible, maybe in the future, consider moving out if it gets too scary. I know you already found an apartment, but if he or any of his *friends* knows where you live, there's a chance he could send them.
I don't like to scare people, but it's best for you to take these things in consideration
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Date: 28-06-2020 18:17
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Witheren wrote:
scoff wrote:
well i'm extra scared now because apparently someone told him last night that "no, she's not this or that or this or that - i met her at the pub earlier and she's there having fun with her friends and really enjoying herself while you are a miserable fucking wreck on drugs"
i've a feeling he didn't like being told that
oh damn that definitely won't help

he'll just get madder in several ways
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Date: 28-06-2020 18:21
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scoff wrote:
Witheren wrote:
scoff wrote:
well i'm extra scared now because apparently someone told him last night that "no, she's not this or that or this or that - i met her at the pub earlier and she's there having fun with her friends and really enjoying herself while you are a miserable fucking wreck on drugs"
i've a feeling he didn't like being told that
oh damn that definitely won't help

he'll just get madder in several ways
i know
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Date: 28-06-2020 18:36
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Nox wrote:
i can't imagine being in this situation... please please take care of urself !! keep in touch with ur friends at all times, i hope he's all talk and won't actually harm u! 
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Date: 28-06-2020 18:38
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scoff wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
I get pretty serious with this stuff; don't wait to get a restraining order. If you wait, someday he'll do something really bad. Get a restraining order ASAP, and if it's possible, maybe in the future, consider moving out if it gets too scary. I know you already found an apartment, but if he or any of his *friends* knows where you live, there's a chance he could send them.
I don't like to scare people, but it's best for you to take these things in consideration
sure, but shit is - i'm not leaving. i'm looking for other apartments, but i like this area and i will stay in this area. he'd literally have to kill me in order to get me out of here. i don't care if it's dangerous, he doesn't get to decide where i live or don't live. i live in this area and i will continue to do so. but i will definitely put metal bars in my windows to make them safer.
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Date: 28-06-2020 18:39
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scoff wrote:
Nox wrote:
i can't imagine being in this situation... please please take care of urself !! keep in touch with ur friends at all times, i hope he's all talk and won't actually harm u! 
i'm trying and i do keep in touch with my friends!! 
and i don't know. i really don't know. he's fucked in the head and could probably do anything.
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Date: 28-06-2020 18:41
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Arthema wrote:
I'm happy to hear that you're doing better, but even if you're a bit afraid it sounds like all should be good!
like the police is really trying to help u and you'll be more secure soon,
keep taking care of yourself, investing in yourself and your friends, and if he'll really try something fast report and let him get taken away, 
hoping for the best for you!
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Date: 28-06-2020 18:46
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Rosa wrote:
I'm so sorry to hear this, but I'm happy you feel better ♥♥ You deserve everything good!! 

If his behavior gets more overhand, is there someone you could live with?  Have you concidered living in a protected recidense? (skyddat boende)
I don't think you should be alone in this. And never ever normalize his behaviour or your fear. You have the right to feel safe.  Posting a link from ROKS, they have good information about shelter and contact info. 
https://www.roks.se/har-finns-kunskap/jourverksamhet-skyddade-boenden
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Date: 28-06-2020 18:50 | Times changed: 1
BEWAREARTEMIS
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BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
scoff wrote:
BEWAREARTEMIS wrote:
I get pretty serious with this stuff; don't wait to get a restraining order. If you wait, someday he'll do something really bad. Get a restraining order ASAP, and if it's possible, maybe in the future, consider moving out if it gets too scary. I know you already found an apartment, but if he or any of his *friends* knows where you live, there's a chance he could send them.
I don't like to scare people, but it's best for you to take these things in consideration
sure, but shit is - i'm not leaving. i'm looking for other apartments, but i like this area and i will stay in this area. he'd literally have to kill me in order to get me out of here. i don't care if it's dangerous, he doesn't get to decide where i live or don't live. i live in this area and i will continue to do so. but i will definitely put metal bars in my windows to make them safer.
It's just fucked up how much power some men can have over you. And honestly, if I was in that situation again, I'd probably change my name and move to another country. 
It's really nice to see that you're braver than most people could ever be, and yes, put metal bars. Anything that helps to keep you safe
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Date: 28-06-2020 19:12
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Claire wrote:
you might need to move.

i know you dont wanna hear it

but you really are in danger and you should probably relocate so he cant find you
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Date: 28-06-2020 19:25
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Claire wrote:
put out notice on social media that people shouldnt tell him where you are

just put out a post "if my ex asks where i am don't disclose that information"

the more people who know that he abused you the safer you are
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Date: 28-06-2020 19:26
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Claire wrote:
and you should be working toward getting a restraining order. 
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Date: 28-06-2020 19:31
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scoff wrote:
Rosa wrote:
I'm so sorry to hear this, but I'm happy you feel better ♥♥ You deserve everything good!! 

If his behavior gets more overhand, is there someone you could live with?  Have you concidered living in a protected recidense? (skyddat boende)
I don't think you should be alone in this. And never ever normalize his behaviour or your fear. You have the right to feel safe.  Posting a link from ROKS, they have good information about shelter and contact info. 
https://www.roks.se/har-finns-kunskap/jourverksamhet-skyddade-boenden
Shit is, I have cats and I want them to live with me at all times + I refuse to move someplace else. I live here. 
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Date: 28-06-2020 23:23
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