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if you ever have kids around in ur life
Hutsu
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hutsu wrote:
Limbs wrote:
ouch wrote:
Limbs wrote:
why is this abuse/neglect?
How is it not
idk maybe the parents just forget or they don't notice
thats how it was in my home and that was normal, so
i'm not saying that you were surely neglected as a child if something from my examples happened to you. they're just like.... guidelines, i sure think it's better to raise some alarm without further cause than just let it slip
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Date: 25-03-2021 00:43
Hutsu
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hutsu wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Advice for when it’s reported multiple times
the system fails and the child ultimately dies?
i'm kinda confused about this, can you elaborate?
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Date: 25-03-2021 00:44
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Claire wrote:
Limbs wrote:
ouch wrote:
Limbs wrote:
why is this abuse/neglect?
How is it not
idk maybe the parents just forget or they don't notice
thats how it was in my home and that was normal, so
parents forgetting to care for their kid is quite literally the definition of neglect. 
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Date: 25-03-2021 00:45
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Fantasy wrote:
Angelica wrote:
Fantasy wrote:
agreed, I would def teach my kids these signs
now thinking about it, why don't they teach this in school hm
I don't think they really put those responsibly on kids, i learned about it but in later classes.

I think it's something u are taught about as a teacher or pedagogue tho. At least some 
it's def important that we don't expect kids to be the first ones to realize completely and leave everything to them, but since they are indeed closer to other kids than me as an adult, they can observe and see things I can not - so if they are taught how to feel that certain things are not really right they could ask adults (parents, teachers, etc.) to look out for the potentially abused kids
that's great! I never learned about stuff like that
yeah well it's their job, but some teachers simply don't care, even when students get bullied, they won't do anything, so maybe kids being able to see certain signs and tell other adults could really help more 
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Date: 25-03-2021 00:54
Fantasy
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Fantasy wrote:
also the reason I agree to teaching kids is: once they get older, become adults, they already learned this and can pass it on to their kids so it creates a cycle that would ideally lead to everyone being aware of abuse-signs
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Date: 25-03-2021 00:56
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MissLondon wrote:
hutsu wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Advice for when it’s reported multiple times
the system fails and the child ultimately dies?
i'm kinda confused about this, can you elaborate?
This kid was reported on 13 times 
present location of child? Cemetery 
https://www.latimes.com/california/story/2019-09-03/anthony-avalos-death-gabriel-fernandez-dcfs-workers
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If only my school caught up on that <|3
Date: 25-03-2021 00:58
Hutsu
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hutsu wrote:
Fantasy wrote:
also the reason I agree to teaching kids is: once they get older, become adults, they already learned this and can pass it on to their kids so it creates a cycle that would ideally lead to everyone being aware of abuse-signs
this would be the best possible outcome. i hope more people would tell children to keep their eyes open and report any worries to an adult until our school systems start involving this in their programs, and maybe even after that to be on the safe side. it's never useless to share information 
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Date: 25-03-2021 01:04
Hutsu
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hutsu wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
hutsu wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Advice for when it’s reported multiple times
the system fails and the child ultimately dies?
i'm kinda confused about this, can you elaborate?
This kid was reported on 13 times 
present location of child? Cemetery 
https://www.latimes.com/california/story/2019-09-03/anthony-avalos-death-gabriel-fernandez-dcfs-workers
oh yeah, it's really sad reality that some people just fall through the cracks of society, usually for some human error or someone simply not doing their job. and i know that it's probably a global issue that in many places is a standing level of lack in personnel etc, but at least in finland probably every field that should secure safety for (underage) citizens are currently really overflowing with people in need of care or guidance. like i just heard that an acute psychiatric inpatient ward for people aged 11-17(?) in my area has room for 10 patients and is currently housing 16. they're literally turning away patients from every clinic and ward because there's no room and no personnel to deal with every suicidal teenager or children with conditions. so yes there are always some people who end up seriously damaged or even dead because the system can't handle the stress, but it's still always worth trying.
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Date: 25-03-2021 01:16
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