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fat is ok now???
MissLondon
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MissLondon wrote:
MennaMohsin wrote:
Guys, don't even care about that shit, like, just live? life isn't that long to care for what people say.
THANK YOU 
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Date: 08-09-2021 04:25
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Limbs wrote:
MennaMohsin wrote:
Guys, don't even care about that shit, like, just live? life isn't that long to care for what people say.
have you been fat? it's not something you can just choose not to believe if you hear it year after year since you're a child. ofc i'm working to undo the damage but it takes time.
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Date: 08-09-2021 04:29
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ouch wrote:
I don't think fat fat is "acceptable" like that, but tbh I think most men care much less than u would think tbh. And if they r with u, its their fault if they don't like ur body, like ?? Not ur fault at all, n I don't feel u have to think abt it or not, their mistake either way 
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Date: 08-09-2021 04:32
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ouch wrote:
ouch wrote:
I don't think fat fat is "acceptable" like that, but tbh I think most men care much less than u would think tbh. And if they r with u, its their fault if they don't like ur body, like ?? Not ur fault at all, n I don't feel u have to think abt it or not, their mistake either way 
Kind of comparable to me, im not fat, but I don't have a skinny waist, I have a small butt (ish) etc, not rlly the beauty standard uknow, but nobody seems to care more than me. Idk how comparable it actually IS to being fat, but just yeah 
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Date: 08-09-2021 04:35
MennaMohsin
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MennaMohsin wrote:
Limbs wrote:
MennaMohsin wrote:
Guys, don't even care about that shit, like, just live? life isn't that long to care for what people say.
have you been fat? it's not something you can just choose not to believe if you hear it year after year since you're a child. ofc i'm working to undo the damage but it takes time.
My friend is fat, I know what they tell her, and I know it hurts, but like, we all have our thing, we're not perfect, so really, if it doesn't destroy your health, then it's okay, it's your choice if you wanna get fit.
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Date: 08-09-2021 04:44 | Times changed: 1
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Limbs wrote:
MennaMohsin wrote:
Limbs wrote:
MennaMohsin wrote:
Guys, don't even care about that shit, like, just live? life isn't that long to care for what people say.
have you been fat? it's not something you can just choose not to believe if you hear it year after year since you're a child. ofc i'm working to undo the damage but it takes time.
My friend is fat, I know what they tell her, and I know it hurts, but like, we all have our thing, we're not perfect, so really, if it doesn't destroy your health, then it's okay, it's your choice if you wanna get fit.
bestie, having a fat friend really doesn't mean you know what it's like to live that experience
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Date: 08-09-2021 05:05
MennaMohsin
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MennaMohsin wrote:
Limbs wrote:
MennaMohsin wrote:
Limbs wrote:
have you been fat? it's not something you can just choose not to believe if you hear it year after year since you're a child. ofc i'm working to undo the damage but it takes time.
My friend is fat, I know what they tell her, and I know it hurts, but like, we all have our thing, we're not perfect, so really, if it doesn't destroy your health, then it's okay, it's your choice if you wanna get fit.
bestie, having a fat friend really doesn't mean you know what it's like to live that experience
I know. 
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Date: 08-09-2021 05:11
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Hungry wrote:
I am fat...
And i wont be friend any kind of people who have problem with it 😊👍 
I have always dated and have many friends. Still people see i am still beautiful. Weight is not rly only thing what u are. And if someone sees only ur weight, then dont care about them. They r not worthy to be cared about. People who see ur personality and likes it, is more important. 
Js.

And no1 cant be that person who all people wants. There is always someone who doesnt seem them attractive, even u do or most people do. I have been many times that, who isnt attracted, but that is life. I just dont need them in my life, who cared about it what i am looking for and dont even try know me more. 🤷 

I always wrote too much.. and i dont remember anymore what u said in first lol
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Date: 08-09-2021 05:48
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kagura wrote:
i once met one guy from tinder and i was like lmaO i feel like my tinder profile is such a catfish because i don't really have any newer photos of myself you could put there.. 
and he was like "bruhh nobody cares as long as you are not fat in reality"
so yeah guys really be like that

but i mean i guess if the point is just to have a hook up.. yeah you probably want someone you are physically attracted and not all people want to be with fat people. but if that's a deal breaker for getting to know someone that's not cool 
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Date: 08-09-2021 08:05
Hungover
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hungover wrote:
This title was so misleading, I was expecting someone to be upset with body positivity lmao
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Date: 08-09-2021 08:08
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remains wrote:
im sorry ppl are like that
skinnier n average people really dont seem to understand how much body size can affect your life n think being insecure about fatness is like being insecure about your nose shape
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Date: 08-09-2021 08:35
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Princess of Pop



Arthema wrote:
Yeah, lately there's this whole body positivity thing going around, which is great,
We can be all of different sizes and shapes and still be all kinds of different beautiful
what is WRONG about them is that some also include obesity in it.
and while I personally love my ladies with a bit of extra weight on them, obesity should not be accepted or celebrated, it's a serious health condition and it's super dangerous, and all my male friends that I have thought the same, some of them LOVE the extra weight actually, one friend of mine, in particular, told me of this girl he met and how excited he was that she was maybe not skinny or average but how confident and comfortable she was in her own skin and how much he loved and admired that, and how he hopes she liked him LMAO

But I KNOW how it feels like being told your whole life that your weight matters and if you won't take care of it you'll have a shit life... but with time and effort you'll work on yourself and see yourself for the person that you are, all the beautiful and amazing qualities that make you the unique and awesome person that you are
those bad things and this image you have in your head one day will go away (not necessarily talking about exercise, more self-love, and acceptance, exercise is there for us to be healthy, not skinny, and PACKED with muscles)
and those assholes that go off on you for not realizing it... lmao
they're not true allies to the cause and most likely never even experienced it themselves, like a LOT of other problems that we have in the world that people that are not experiencing it support, which is great, but flaunt it like it's their own problem and just... man I hate people.

oops I wrote a lot but I hope it's not too much
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Date: 08-09-2021 09:01
Hungover
National star



hungover wrote:
As someone who grew up curvier/chubbier than most my classmates, and friends - I fully understand what you've gone through with the comments, not feeling good enough, etc.

I recently discovered that I can get whoever the fuck I want, my size doesn't matter 98% of the time, because people find confidence attractive, and while I'm nowhere near confident with my size, fake it til you make it, haha. I started getting lots of positive attention when  I started dressing the way I wanted, instead of how our society "wants" curvier, fat and chubby women to dress. (I'm thinking modest, covered up, etc.)

Am I making sense? I don't know.
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Date: 08-09-2021 09:10
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kruspersille wrote:
Limbs wrote:
kruspersille wrote:
lmao boys literally be resorting to insulting our weight when we reject them 
what
that's not what i said at all though
if uve not had that experience; coolio, ure lucky limbs 👍
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Date: 08-09-2021 11:16
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Sylvan wrote:
People are like that, they blame you instead of admitting that they are shallow (which is fine, just be honest instead of this stupid 'everyone is beautiful to me' bullshit). It's super not helpful.
This is coming from someone who is ugly, not fat, but I feel like some things apply too.
People love to tell you about how beauty lies in the eye of the beholder but it's a fact that e.g. for someone who doesn't adhere to the beauty ideals, the beholders who think you are beautiful are nonexistent.
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Date: 08-09-2021 11:23
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