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My gran asked me for $500 -_-
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Sera wrote:
sounds like my mom. i didn't even realize how bad it was before i met my partner

no don't ever give her any money
Its eye opening right 

I remember in my early twenties a relationship made me realize that constant enabling was going to sabotage it 

I remember she kicked me out and I moved in with the guy bc of it LMFAO 

I hope your mom no longer harasses you
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Date: 01-03-2022 01:55
MissLondon
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MissLondon wrote:
I understand why you feel “guilty”
but you have financial obligations as well
if you don’t think she’ll return the money
only “loan” what you can afford to miss.
Due to gas prices, I do think
you should comp her a little something 
good luck!
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Date: 01-03-2022 01:58
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Thanks for the validation I know giving her money is a dumb idea but I still feel guilty when I dont 

I need to hear I'm not shitty or heartless when I dont lol 

Tho I did buy myself a pizza when she apparently has no gas but..... you live with your sister how in the hell can you be so broke constantly 
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Date: 01-03-2022 01:58
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
I understand why you feel “guilty”
but you have financial obligations as well
if you don’t think she’ll return the money
only “loan” what you can afford to miss.
Due to gas prices, I do think
you should comp her a little something 
good luck!
Yyeah I might think about it 

But $500 absolutely not honestly wtf 

$50 I dont mind tho. But I literally dont know how she cant pay her phone bill she works????
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Date: 01-03-2022 02:00
MissLondon
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MissLondon wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
I understand why you feel “guilty”
but you have financial obligations as well
if you don’t think she’ll return the money
only “loan” what you can afford to miss.
Due to gas prices, I do think
you should comp her a little something 
good luck!
Yyeah I might think about it 

But $500 absolutely not honestly wtf 

$50 I dont mind tho. But I literally dont know how she cant pay her phone bill she works????
Do you think she’s asking for more
than necessary so she can 
hit up the casino?
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Date: 01-03-2022 02:02
Fantasy
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Fantasy wrote:
i'd def not give her the money, esp since u seem to not have much urself
u really shouldn't feel bad at all
id understand if she had nothing to eat etc but like gas+phone bills aren't life threatening
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Date: 01-03-2022 02:09
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
I understand why you feel “guilty”
but you have financial obligations as well
if you don’t think she’ll return the money
only “loan” what you can afford to miss.
Due to gas prices, I do think
you should comp her a little something 
good luck!
Yyeah I might think about it 

But $500 absolutely not honestly wtf 

$50 I dont mind tho. But I literally dont know how she cant pay her phone bill she works????
Do you think she’s asking for more
than necessary so she can 
hit up the casino?
If not that then to cover what she blew in the machine


She called me a few weeks ago and I heard machines and she denied being in a casino but admited she wasnt home 
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Date: 01-03-2022 02:14
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Fantasy wrote:
i'd def not give her the money, esp since u seem to not have much urself
u really shouldn't feel bad at all
id understand if she had nothing to eat etc but like gas+phone bills aren't life threatening
She lives with her well off sister and brother in law who get hello fresh weekly she can eat 

Getting to work may be an issue but I just told her I'd give her gas money and she said dont bother 

Ok fuck you too
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Date: 01-03-2022 02:15
Peachmilk
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peachmilk wrote:
Damn, this sounds stressful and emotionally exhausting
I'm sorry, you're going through this 
I personally wouldn't lend them money, tho
I am broke myself, if someone asks me for like 100 bucks, i'd give it to them but only if I'm sure, that they would pay me back
but like.. 500? that's half a thousand.
thats a lot
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Date: 01-03-2022 02:18
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
You really dont need the money if I offered some gas money but refuse the $500 

Also I paid the storage unit this month wtf
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Date: 01-03-2022 02:19
Fantasy
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Fantasy wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Fantasy wrote:
i'd def not give her the money, esp since u seem to not have much urself
u really shouldn't feel bad at all
id understand if she had nothing to eat etc but like gas+phone bills aren't life threatening
She lives with her well off sister and brother in law who get hello fresh weekly she can eat 

Getting to work may be an issue but I just told her I'd give her gas money and she said dont bother 

Ok fuck you too
wtf she has to ask for money and is still they bitchy??? gurl no way in hell id not even give her a penny
u should really consider cutting her off...she sounds really toxic to be around
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Date: 01-03-2022 02:19
Fantasy
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Fantasy wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
You really dont need the money if I offered some gas money but refuse the $500 

Also I paid the storage unit this month wtf
yes!! sounds more like 'gas' was an excuse for whatever she was planning on doing with that much money
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Date: 01-03-2022 02:20
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
peachmilk wrote:
Damn, this sounds stressful and emotionally exhausting
I'm sorry, you're going through this 
I personally wouldn't lend them money, tho
I am broke myself, if someone asks me for like 100 bucks, i'd give it to them but only if I'm sure, that they would pay me back
but like.. 500? that's half a thousand.
thats a lot
This isnt new lmfao 

Years ago she drove to my work when she knew it was payday 


No joke asked me to give her $60 so my mom could have drug money



I was living with them both at the time, said no, got a text saying I could pick my stuff up whenever, and to enjoy life with bf??? 
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Date: 01-03-2022 02:24
Peachmilk
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peachmilk wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
peachmilk wrote:
Damn, this sounds stressful and emotionally exhausting
I'm sorry, you're going through this 
I personally wouldn't lend them money, tho
I am broke myself, if someone asks me for like 100 bucks, i'd give it to them but only if I'm sure, that they would pay me back
but like.. 500? that's half a thousand.
thats a lot
This isnt new lmfao 

Years ago she drove to my work when she knew it was payday 


No joke asked me to give her $60 so my mom could have drug money



I was living with them both at the time, said no, got a text saying I could pick my stuff up whenever, and to enjoy life with bf??? 
wtf, run 
this is like some fucked up family dynamics from a netflix movie
you'd probably better off without them 
this sounds horrible
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Date: 01-03-2022 02:28
Anachronism
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Anachronism wrote:
Fantasy wrote:
Anachronism wrote:
Fantasy wrote:
i'd def not give her the money, esp since u seem to not have much urself
u really shouldn't feel bad at all
id understand if she had nothing to eat etc but like gas+phone bills aren't life threatening
She lives with her well off sister and brother in law who get hello fresh weekly she can eat 

Getting to work may be an issue but I just told her I'd give her gas money and she said dont bother 

Ok fuck you too
wtf she has to ask for money and is still they bitchy??? gurl no way in hell id not even give her a penny
u should really consider cutting her off...she sounds really toxic to be around
1) she helps me w/ transportation rn cuz my car needs work and I'm waiting for my taxes to fix it (but I can figure it out) 

2) its dumb but cutting her off weirdly terrifies me and I think I should hire a therapist before I do for support 

But I need family counseling this isnt healthy at all
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Date: 01-03-2022 02:32
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