Rotte wrote:
Maxolotl wrote:
Even thought she is in the wrong, there is a chance those are still her feelings though?
Angelica wrote:
tbh she is the one who didn't treat my grandfather right like i have zero respect for her point of view on the conflict it's like you literally stopped talking to your dad because he whined about you clogging the sink nikocad wrote:
Honestly, If I were your mom I would stop being immature for something that happened in the past and just attend. They may have some drama but they should pay their respects ((even if they have little to none)) to the person. But again, that's just my opinion. She doesn't have to and no one can or should force her into going. If she wants to, sure, if she doesn't want to, that's ok. I get trying to convince her but you can't force someone into going. They have no right to tell her to go if she doesn't want to. So basically, I don't know what I'm saying and people should stop trying to force her into it when she doesn't want to.
I think alot of people feel obligated because it is family. But if the person did not treat your right, i think you have every right to cut contacts and choose to not to attend a funeral and show respect.Honestly, If I were your mom I would stop being immature for something that happened in the past and just attend. They may have some drama but they should pay their respects ((even if they have little to none)) to the person. But again, that's just my opinion. She doesn't have to and no one can or should force her into going. If she wants to, sure, if she doesn't want to, that's ok. I get trying to convince her but you can't force someone into going. They have no right to tell her to go if she doesn't want to. So basically, I don't know what I'm saying and people should stop trying to force her into it when she doesn't want to.