Opulence wrote:disintegration wrote:Opulence wrote:
do people not understand that things like 'I hate all men' and 'all cops are bastards' and stuff are not about ALL of them yes sure I believe ur dad is a good guy whatever lol. it's about being oppressed for years and you cannot be mad at victims of oppression for defending themselves and having a general hate towards the group of their oppressor(s). same with cops, is every cop a super evil bad guy? not necessarily. but do they support a system that was build on racism and are they keeping it alive? yeah so fck that
and if u ever come across a guy who pulls the nOt aLl mEn card, run lol. if they would be smart enough and actually a good guy they wouldn't have to overly defend themselves
ACAB - assigned cop at birth
I disagree, being a cop and being a man is not the same, you can choose your career.
It's absolutely unhealthy for young boys to hear shit like all men are bad, it only drives them in the arms of toxic masculinity and divides even more.
I do agree with you somewhat, but I feel like what's more toxic to young boys is not getting the right upbringing rather than some people saying they hate men bc of the experiences they've had with men. ''
Teach ur sons not to r*pe instead of teaching ur daughters how to protect themselves from that'', u know what I mean? I feel like I've had an entirely different upbringing than my brother. whenever he says problematic stuff, for example 'I think all gay people who actually dress and present gay deserve to get beaten up' and my mom didnt say anything about it. he's 14. he uses all these slurs and when I used to say something about it, my mom would tell me to shut up. ofc not saying every household is like that, but I think focussing on how to raise them is something thats more important rather than telling people they cant hate their oppressors for what they've done.
Why not both?