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Why you shouldn't use incorrect pronuns / 👸
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Heaven wrote:
Claire wrote:
disintegration wrote:
The neo-pronoun thing is so overblown, i have never met a person in the real world who uses those and no one over 30 on the internet.

It is kinda transphobic and ableist to claim that you have to use silly pronouns and equating not calling someone bunbunself with a trans woman being misgendered by her superior or someone who is not a woman being  called a woman, it also infantilizes autistic people to say that we NEED those uwuw special pronouns because our brains just wooork so different that we have suuuch complicated relationships to gender and therefore use neo pronouns.....

My relationship to gender is simple, it's not A or B and no thx.
it's a larp. nobody is really doing this. but i worry that some of these kids are gonna like have a meltdown when they leave their tumblr bubbles and step into reality idk.
it does happen honestly and no offence meant but they are obviously inept in that department NO OFFENCE why am i so apologetic today lmao

in real life? wild.
Date: 10-02-2021 19:58
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Alam wrote:
Annie wrote:
Sweethoney wrote:
Claire wrote:
oh whatever happened with yaniv i havent heard anything about that story in a minute
Idk i just thought about it and it annoys me that Blaire White (who is also trans...) calls her he. Even if shes a bad person shes still trans.
see this is literally the only case I wouldn't refer to someone w their pronouns cause its JESSICA YANIV this is what hurts the trans community. jessica is literally everything transphobic people believe trans people are. i would NEVER  say this about anyone else but I doubt with everything in me than they are truly trans and they're using their "trans identity" to their "Advantage"
That's the thing though, treating pronouns as if they're some kind of condition, like if you're a good person you get to be referred to by your pronouns, kind of icky I don't know. That being said that Yaniv bitch can kick rocks in flip flops.
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Date: 10-02-2021 19:59
Annie
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Annie wrote:
Alam wrote:
Annie wrote:
Sweethoney wrote:
Idk i just thought about it and it annoys me that Blaire White (who is also trans...) calls her he. Even if shes a bad person shes still trans.
see this is literally the only case I wouldn't refer to someone w their pronouns cause its JESSICA YANIV this is what hurts the trans community. jessica is literally everything transphobic people believe trans people are. i would NEVER  say this about anyone else but I doubt with everything in me than they are truly trans and they're using their "trans identity" to their "Advantage"
That's the thing though, treating pronouns as if they're some kind of condition, like if you're a good person you get to be referred to by your pronouns, kind of icky I don't know. That being said that Yaniv bitch can kick rocks in flip flops.
its not just that I dont like them its that ahh I dunno how to word it but focalin worded it how I wanted. if they didn't go into women restrooms and take pictures of underaged girls and ask them about periods and claim that they get periods and whatnot then even though I dont like them id still refer to them as she/her but for now I stick to the "middle" and I still use jessica and not their prev name
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Date: 10-02-2021 20:07
Annie
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Annie wrote:
Annie wrote:
Alam wrote:
Annie wrote:
see this is literally the only case I wouldn't refer to someone w their pronouns cause its JESSICA YANIV this is what hurts the trans community. jessica is literally everything transphobic people believe trans people are. i would NEVER  say this about anyone else but I doubt with everything in me than they are truly trans and they're using their "trans identity" to their "Advantage"
That's the thing though, treating pronouns as if they're some kind of condition, like if you're a good person you get to be referred to by your pronouns, kind of icky I don't know. That being said that Yaniv bitch can kick rocks in flip flops.
its not just that I dont like them its that ahh I dunno how to word it but focalin worded it how I wanted. if they didn't go into women restrooms and take pictures of underaged girls and ask them about periods and claim that they get periods and whatnot then even though I dont like them id still refer to them as she/her but for now I stick to the "middle" and I still use jessica and not their prev name
by middle I mean they/them cause imo that's safe
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Date: 10-02-2021 20:08
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wrote:
Annie wrote:
Annie wrote:
Alam wrote:
That's the thing though, treating pronouns as if they're some kind of condition, like if you're a good person you get to be referred to by your pronouns, kind of icky I don't know. That being said that Yaniv bitch can kick rocks in flip flops.
its not just that I dont like them its that ahh I dunno how to word it but focalin worded it how I wanted. if they didn't go into women restrooms and take pictures of underaged girls and ask them about periods and claim that they get periods and whatnot then even though I dont like them id still refer to them as she/her but for now I stick to the "middle" and I still use jessica and not their prev name
by middle I mean they/them cause imo that's safe

ehhhh idk using they/them for a pedo because they are a pedo is weird like would you call a cis person who is also a pedo they instead of he/she?
Date: 10-02-2021 20:10
Annie
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Annie wrote:
disintegration wrote:
Annie wrote:
Annie wrote:
its not just that I dont like them its that ahh I dunno how to word it but focalin worded it how I wanted. if they didn't go into women restrooms and take pictures of underaged girls and ask them about periods and claim that they get periods and whatnot then even though I dont like them id still refer to them as she/her but for now I stick to the "middle" and I still use jessica and not their prev name
by middle I mean they/them cause imo that's safe

ehhhh idk using they/them for a pedo because they are a pedo is weird like would you call a cis person who is also a pedo they instead of he/she?
no that's not what I meant ah istg i cant word my thoughts properly I'm sorry
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Date: 10-02-2021 20:11
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Limbs wrote:
Claire wrote:
Heaven wrote:
i think ive decided to not ever be referred as "they" ngl, i was once shitting in the bathroom (obviously) and i was like "idk why but i feel kinda excluded when people refer to me by they", like u could call me whatever u want but "they" or especially "it" to me is like ?????????????? am i insane or
theres something that feels impersonal about they - like youre not talking about ME youre talking about a hypothetical perseon or a group of people. it feels very nonspecifit.

it is quite dehumanizing and i wont use it to refer to any people 
are you saying the pronoun 'it' is dehumanizing or talking about someone with they pronouns is dehumanizing
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Date: 10-02-2021 20:12
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Limbs wrote:
Claire wrote:
Heaven wrote:
i think ive decided to not ever be referred as "they" ngl, i was once shitting in the bathroom (obviously) and i was like "idk why but i feel kinda excluded when people refer to me by they", like u could call me whatever u want but "they" or especially "it" to me is like ?????????????? am i insane or
theres something that feels impersonal about they - like youre not talking about ME youre talking about a hypothetical perseon or a group of people. it feels very nonspecifit.

it is quite dehumanizing and i wont use it to refer to any people 
are you saying the pronoun 'it' is dehumanizing or talking about someone with they pronouns is dehumanizing
im sure she's talking about "it"
Date: 10-02-2021 20:12
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wrote:
Heaven wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Claire wrote:
theres something that feels impersonal about they - like youre not talking about ME youre talking about a hypothetical perseon or a group of people. it feels very nonspecifit.

it is quite dehumanizing and i wont use it to refer to any people 
are you saying the pronoun 'it' is dehumanizing or talking about someone with they pronouns is dehumanizing
im sure she's talking about "it"

i don't think so which is a bit disappointing but not too surprising.
Date: 10-02-2021 20:14
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ouch wrote:
Heaven wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Claire wrote:
theres something that feels impersonal about they - like youre not talking about ME youre talking about a hypothetical perseon or a group of people. it feels very nonspecifit.

it is quite dehumanizing and i wont use it to refer to any people 
are you saying the pronoun 'it' is dehumanizing or talking about someone with they pronouns is dehumanizing
im sure she's talking about "it"
She said they but idk
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Date: 10-02-2021 20:14
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ouch wrote:
Heaven wrote:
Limbs wrote:
are you saying the pronoun 'it' is dehumanizing or talking about someone with they pronouns is dehumanizing
im sure she's talking about "it"
She said they but idk
"it is quite dehumanizing and i wont use it to refer to any people" maybe but
Date: 10-02-2021 20:15
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Claire wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Claire wrote:
Heaven wrote:
i think ive decided to not ever be referred as "they" ngl, i was once shitting in the bathroom (obviously) and i was like "idk why but i feel kinda excluded when people refer to me by they", like u could call me whatever u want but "they" or especially "it" to me is like ?????????????? am i insane or
theres something that feels impersonal about they - like youre not talking about ME youre talking about a hypothetical perseon or a group of people. it feels very nonspecifit.

(the pronoun) it is quite dehumanizing and i wont use it to refer to any people 
are you saying the pronoun 'it' is dehumanizing or talking about someone with they pronouns is dehumanizing
^^^
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Date: 10-02-2021 20:15
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ouch wrote:
Claire wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Claire wrote:
theres something that feels impersonal about they - like youre not talking about ME youre talking about a hypothetical perseon or a group of people. it feels very nonspecifit.

(the pronoun) it is quite dehumanizing and i wont use it to refer to any people 
are you saying the pronoun 'it' is dehumanizing or talking about someone with they pronouns is dehumanizing
^^^
Girl u wrote that confusingly smh
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Date: 10-02-2021 20:16
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Limbs wrote:
Claire wrote:
Limbs wrote:
Claire wrote:
theres something that feels impersonal about they - like youre not talking about ME youre talking about a hypothetical perseon or a group of people. it feels very nonspecifit.

(the pronoun) it is quite dehumanizing and i wont use it to refer to any people 
are you saying the pronoun 'it' is dehumanizing or talking about someone with they pronouns is dehumanizing
^^^
thx 
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Date: 10-02-2021 20:16
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Claire wrote:
ouch wrote:
Claire wrote:
Limbs wrote:
are you saying the pronoun 'it' is dehumanizing or talking about someone with they pronouns is dehumanizing
^^^
Girl u wrote that confusingly smh

yea i can see it. i made two paragraphs because i was discussing two separate ideas. the first paragraph addresses the impersonal perception of 'they' and the second part was about how 'it' literally refers to stuff and not people and is straiaght up dehumanizing and i wont call a human being 'it' 
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Date: 10-02-2021 20:17
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