Claire wrote:disintegration wrote:Claire wrote:
like im actually kinda sad about this that you'd think this way about me lmao . i make a real effort to avoid gendered pronouns for you even tho that doesnt necessarily align with my personal ideology.Â
I'm sorry, I really appreciate that you make an effort.Â
It still makes me sad because I think you don't see me as a nonbinary person and it hurts more from someone who's opinion I value.Â
i value your opinions too. aw i'm gonna cry. youre like in the top ten smart people on vp.
i see you as a person and your gender doesnt actually matter to me really. i always wanna do my best to respect people within reason. and i do think asking to be called by they/them pronouns is reasonable.Â
i only know one person irl who identifies as nonbinary and i fuck up their pronouns ALL the time and feel like an asshole everytime. like i dont wanna make people feel bad on purpose.Â
not to use this emoji but -Â