Sera wrote:
lmaouch the repetation makes it so sus, as if he was convincing that to himself as well. and love bombing is a classic move. healthy/genuine love isn't a fucking rollercoaster with hurt feelingd and sacrifices
Anachronism wrote:
I honestly think many people here are going too easy on him here. Do you blame op for not trusting him? I wouldn'tÂ
i feel like if it comes out that he's indeed cheating he'll blame it on feeling soooo suffocated by her completely irrational jealously blahblah and either buy a gift or do some sensitive soft boy crocodile tears kind of a stunt. take enough of the blame to seem genuine but manipulate tf out of herSera wrote:
Ops bf reminds me of my ex. When we moved in together, he very quickly started calling me his wife. He also said, "no lying and no cheating" all the time. It was fucking creepy. Versailles wrote:
from what i've read abt him here and other forum posts it kinda sounds like he gaslights you to think there's nothing but it clearly seems like he lives off womens validation and like the attention, a bit more flirtasious than 'just friends' it seems  maybe he hasn't cheated, but it might be a gray area which most ppl in monogamous relationship wouldn't be okay with.Â
everything with these kind of stuff happening seems off, and clearly he's not being 100% honest with you
the first red flag was when he kept calling everyone princesses or some shit tbh. and talking about moving together after the first night they hooked up. he's def manipulative and not just based on this post. he's making such big promises to her to make it seem like the love story of the century to get away with shady shit like this. he's making it seem like he's such a hero ("making changes to please me" [boohoo, manwhore]) for waiting/"supporting" her to get better when he's clearly the reason why this all has escalated so greatly. who tf wouldn't go crazy with a guy like him?from what i've read abt him here and other forum posts it kinda sounds like he gaslights you to think there's nothing but it clearly seems like he lives off womens validation and like the attention, a bit more flirtasious than 'just friends' it seems  maybe he hasn't cheated, but it might be a gray area which most ppl in monogamous relationship wouldn't be okay with.Â
everything with these kind of stuff happening seems off, and clearly he's not being 100% honest with you
I honestly think many people here are going too easy on him here. Do you blame op for not trusting him? I wouldn'tÂ
lmaouch the repetation makes it so sus, as if he was convincing that to himself as well. and love bombing is a classic move. healthy/genuine love isn't a fucking rollercoaster with hurt feelingd and sacrifices