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Cobain
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cobain wrote:
if we end up getting an apartment and later on break up or smth like yeah shit happens, ppl do that all the time. either he could go stay with his friends until one of us or both of us have found smth new or i could stay with my mom. simple as that
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Posts: 10232
Date: 15-05-2022 21:12
MissLondon
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MissLondon wrote:
cobain wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Tbf, that sounds sketchy af 
and you seem more worried than he is
Nothing will work out via the landlord 
and based on what you post
It gives the vibe 
that he has a plan on where to stay 
it’s just probably not with you
which in this case
isn’t a bad thing. 
i mean yeah, he takes everything as it comes. surely he's worried about it but i'm aware i'm probably more worried than him. lol.
when we got more serious we both kinda agreed on that u can't move in with someone so quickly but we've also kinda talked about moving in together tho, like "when we live together...." that sort of thing. and ideally we'd wait longer until we moved in together but with all of this now.... yeah.... if he doesn't want to live together it's fine, but i still wanna suggest it cuz it's a solution and i'd enjoy living with him. we won't get an apartment right away even if we're two but we can start applying together so that we're getting somewhere
I’m not trying to be mean
but do you ever re-read the things 
you post?
Do you even enjoy the relationship?
Asking because it seems tiring 
the highs never seem to last for long 
before you’re driving yourself mad
questioning other things.
Then the outings with friends 
conversations with the other girl 
when do you rest and actually 
appreciate time spent together?
Other stuff stands out too
especially where his dad is concerned.
What grown ass man
needs another man to tell him
how to be a man 
or even stay with you for that matter?
idk not trying to be intentionally harsh
but sometimes it seems as if 
you focus on the wrong things
but we’ve all been there too girl ❤️
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Posts: 28089
Date: 15-05-2022 21:29
Cobain
International Star



cobain wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
cobain wrote:
MissLondon wrote:
Tbf, that sounds sketchy af 
and you seem more worried than he is
Nothing will work out via the landlord 
and based on what you post
It gives the vibe 
that he has a plan on where to stay 
it’s just probably not with you
which in this case
isn’t a bad thing. 
i mean yeah, he takes everything as it comes. surely he's worried about it but i'm aware i'm probably more worried than him. lol.
when we got more serious we both kinda agreed on that u can't move in with someone so quickly but we've also kinda talked about moving in together tho, like "when we live together...." that sort of thing. and ideally we'd wait longer until we moved in together but with all of this now.... yeah.... if he doesn't want to live together it's fine, but i still wanna suggest it cuz it's a solution and i'd enjoy living with him. we won't get an apartment right away even if we're two but we can start applying together so that we're getting somewhere
I’m not trying to be mean
but do you ever re-read the things 
you post?
Do you even enjoy the relationship?
Asking because it seems tiring 
the highs never seem to last for long 
before you’re driving yourself mad
questioning other things.
Then the outings with friends 
conversations with the other girl 
when do you rest and actually 
appreciate time spent together?
Other stuff stands out too
especially where his dad is concerned.
What grown ass man
needs another man to tell him
how to be a man 
or even stay with you for that matter?
idk not trying to be intentionally harsh
but sometimes it seems as if 
you focus on the wrong things
but we’ve all been there too girl ❤️
i re read it from time to time. and i do enjoy the relationship, even if it doesn't seem like it. just a lot of insecurity on my part tbh. i feel like we are communicating better as of late, we are like finding our way and learning, u know?
u know i really appreciate ur replies n stuff, always do. but i feel like this is going well <3
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Posts: 10232
Date: 18-05-2022 20:27
Cobain
International Star



cobain wrote:
we are applying for apartments together now
this weekend we're gonna pack up all his stuff. he's gonna store his things at our friends places, he can stay with either me or our friends, but he refuses to accept help like that lmfao. he feels like a burden. and i've told him that we're gonna move in together eventually, no different from him coming to stay here (although i do have such a small apartment so yeah. but if there's no other choice? and he can't feel like a burden with his whole ass gf hello)
he's looked at an apartment today, second hand contract basically but the person will list him as an inherent bc bf wants a real contract with the landlord. i told him to get all contracts and all papers he can and to be careful. he has not decided yet if he's gonna take it but most likely. it'll be for 6 months at most, and bf told this person about the plans of moving in with me whenever we get an apartment and person said it's no problem as long as he'll inform him a month before

when it comes to the coworker who tricked my bf.... turns out he knew all along he'd only be able to stay there for 3 months (because when u move out of an apartment u have 3 months where u still need to pay rent, and normally u live there for those 3 months, but coworker found a new apartment straight away and wasn't able to pay double rent and therefore tricked my bf with all this shit). i hope he gets major shit for it. my bf said he doesn't have the time or energy to take care of him rn but whenever we've sorted out this shit, he'll fry him.
like ok if coworker had said from the beginning that it was only 3 months it would've been different. but WHY on EARTH lie and put my boyfriend in such a tough position? and telling him less than TWO weeks before that he needs to move out???????
anyways we are not going to clean a single fucking shitstain in that apartment when we leave. because coworker is on the contract. take care of YOUR mess in YOUR apartment. dickhead
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Posts: 10232
Date: 18-05-2022 20:40
Cobain
International Star



cobain wrote:
plsssssss i want us to get an apartment NOW
i hate to see him worried and sad. he works so hard and does so much for everyone and is obviously exhausted and i hate hate hate that he has a whole ass move to take care of. it's stressful u know.

he ended up taking that second hand apartment. so now he at least has somewhere to stay for a while. as i said i'll help him this weekend, as much as i possibly can. will also try to cheer him up. maybe we can take a break from the packing n stuff on saturday evening and go out to eat or smth. just to get our thoughts off it and to enjoy ourselves a bit. or maybe we can get drunk and pack up lol.
i'm literally applying to everything i can, he's listed as like my co-applicant or whatever on ALL fucking sites. updating the sites every hour even tho i get emails whenever smth new pops up. i wanna sort this out so bad
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Posts: 10232
Date: 19-05-2022 21:44
Cobain
International Star



cobain wrote:
we have gotten an offer for an apartment !!!!!!!
i'm gonna contact the person who lives there currently and see if we can come check it out tomorrow. 4 other ppl have gotten the same offer so we might not get it but STILL
aahhghsg omg 
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Posts: 10232
Date: 24-05-2022 08:32
Cobain
International Star



cobain wrote:
LOL I JUST GOT ANOTHER OFFER !!!!!!!!!!!! what is this
so defo easier being 2 and getting apartments. it's been a week and i've gotten the same amount of offers as i've gotten myself in 2 years
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Posts: 10232
Date: 24-05-2022 11:37
Cobain
International Star



cobain wrote:
Holy fucking shit I think we've gotten an apartment
I was at a viewing on Friday and it was a really nice apartment, I told them we were interested still. They had some questions on Monday which I answered and yesterday they texted me saying they'd like to offer us the apartment if we're still interested so I said yes. Have not gotten like a confirmation that we have gotten it but I'm like 95% sure that we have (and I say 95 just bc we haven't signed the contract yet)
So yesterday I sent in an application to give up my apartment. Which I didn't wanna do until I've signed the contract but had I given it up today I would have to pay rent for 4 more months instead of just 3. So let's hope for the best yeah. If it goes to shit and we're not getting it, I hope we sort it out in 3 months, otherwise I'll go stay with my mom until we do
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Posts: 10232
Date: 01-06-2022 09:50
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