Clegane wrote:
So I have a new beau
Y'all remember me saying my ex is 37?
Well my parents/family tolerated it but when I finally broke it off they were like thank god, that was so weird!!
but yesterday and today I spent the whole day with an ex colleague of mine after we got talking on social media and woow
That guys is making me feel things I haven't been able to feel before
Because he's gentle and gentlemanly and makes me feel safe which is probably exactly what I need after my traumatic last relationship
But the problem is.... he's 41!!
And I'm almost 22
Which is a huge difference
My sister was like "your men keep getting older"
And I mean yeah it's not ideal seeing as I wanna have a family and stuff but I can't help who I get attracted to
Anyways I really don't know how to break this to my parents?? They'd respect my choice sure but I think they'd be deeply disappointed in me
Also he has 3 kids with his ex wife
They are 9, 11 and....20!!!
He says it feels surreal to him and he'd never expected this
He also asked me often if I'm okay with such an age gap
Also he said he knows I want to have kids really badly but he can't promise if he'll want to have more kids or not later in life
Which is like :-/ hnnng
But we share so many interests and he seems like a truly good and genuine man for once
I am a MESS
So I have a new beau
Y'all remember me saying my ex is 37?
Well my parents/family tolerated it but when I finally broke it off they were like thank god, that was so weird!!
but yesterday and today I spent the whole day with an ex colleague of mine after we got talking on social media and woow
That guys is making me feel things I haven't been able to feel before
Because he's gentle and gentlemanly and makes me feel safe which is probably exactly what I need after my traumatic last relationship
But the problem is.... he's 41!!
And I'm almost 22
Which is a huge difference
My sister was like "your men keep getting older"
And I mean yeah it's not ideal seeing as I wanna have a family and stuff but I can't help who I get attracted to
Anyways I really don't know how to break this to my parents?? They'd respect my choice sure but I think they'd be deeply disappointed in me
Also he has 3 kids with his ex wife
They are 9, 11 and....20!!!
He says it feels surreal to him and he'd never expected this
He also asked me often if I'm okay with such an age gap
Also he said he knows I want to have kids really badly but he can't promise if he'll want to have more kids or not later in life
Which is like :-/ hnnng
But we share so many interests and he seems like a truly good and genuine man for once
I am a MESS