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Private
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So today the guy I was seeing recently told me that before he asked for a divorce his ex wife enraged him so much in a fight that he hit her on the head

And I mean from what he told what happened throughout his relationship it really was a bad marriage altogether, as in both parties grew to hate each other pretty much

But now I just don't know how to deal with that one piece of information??

I mean I get when someone provokes you so much you just snap
Happened with my parents to me often
Or I've experienced it myself 
Where you just don't know how to handle a situation anymore 

Apparently it's been a 1 time thing and he said he doesn't want to someday face his children and have to tell them he killed their mom (in a fight context)

And like ????? I don't know I can deal with shitty treatment in a relationship if one party is really pissed 
but hitting???

This just makes me feel weird about the future... like maybe I'll piss him off someday and he'll hit me?
I don't know him that well...

What a scary thing to drop... makes me question the whole thing rn
RedCrate
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Yeah, that is pretty damn scary. I would def be on edge if that was me.
Obv you need to make a choice here, and if there is part of you that wants to stay, you need to have good talk, and set some strict boundaries. If they are crossed AT ALL, relationship over. And remember, just because youre having the conversation, does not mean you have to stay. Use it to make an informed decision.

But first of all. Are you scared of him? Or nervous of him? Because to me that is an instant no
Bones
Princess of Pop



therapy n anger management time !
Private
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For me, not that big of an issue if it was one time, but depends of course. I know dudes that are nice calm and then they have snapped n hit someone or smth but then immediate regret and then they never do it again 
MissLondon
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Odd how it switched
from a hit on the head
to killing her.

Without a second thought
I’d check out lol
Sylvan
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May I ask how old said guy is?
Private
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Sylvan wrote:
May I ask how old said guy is?
Uhhh 41

I dont know what's wrong with me Sylvan I don't even think I have daddy issues 😭😭😭😭😭
Private
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are u one of the veepers whos talking about dating someone 10 years older recently n saying its fine cause ur mature or smth, theres been a couple recently and if that was u, and now this u should probably get out of there before he does the same to you, lets be real.
Private
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Clegane wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
May I ask how old said guy is?
Uhhh 41

I dont know what's wrong with me Sylvan I don't even think I have daddy issues 😭😭😭😭😭
srsly get out of this while you can
Private
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now u know why hes dating 21 year olds who dont know better lol
Private
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RedCrate wrote:
Yeah, that is pretty damn scary. I would def be on edge if that was me.
Obv you need to make a choice here, and if there is part of you that wants to stay, you need to have good talk, and set some strict boundaries. If they are crossed AT ALL, relationship over. And remember, just because youre having the conversation, does not mean you have to stay. Use it to make an informed decision.

But first of all. Are you scared of him? Or nervous of him? Because to me that is an instant no
Thank you for this 
Your post has actually helped me a lot right now and has put some things into perspective 
Sylvan
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Clegane wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
May I ask how old said guy is?
Uhhh 41

I dont know what's wrong with me Sylvan I don't even think I have daddy issues 😭😭😭😭😭
I don't even think it's (just) the age, I just think you are such a kind and gentle person that you attract uhh.. more troubled guys.

You deserve someone who doesn't make you worry and feel bad and I really hope you will find a person like that.
Private
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MissLondon wrote:
Odd how it switched
from a hit on the head
to killing her.

Without a second thought
I’d check out lol
We talked some more and I got him to say that if he had a daughter and someone hit her he would probably kill that guy so at least he knows how wrong it is I guess 
Private
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devilcake wrote:
are u one of the veepers whos talking about dating someone 10 years older recently n saying its fine cause ur mature or smth, theres been a couple recently and if that was u, and now this u should probably get out of there before he does the same to you, lets be real.
I mean my first (long term) relationship was with another older guy, eventhough he was just 16 years older and it was pretty much bad all around but while I'm not in a relationship with this current man yet I'm scared I'll get trapped in a circle of the same thing happening over and over again 
Private
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Sylvan wrote:
Clegane wrote:
Sylvan wrote:
May I ask how old said guy is?
Uhhh 41

I dont know what's wrong with me Sylvan I don't even think I have daddy issues 😭😭😭😭😭
I don't even think it's (just) the age, I just think you are such a kind and gentle person that you attract uhh.. more troubled guys.

You deserve someone who doesn't make you worry and feel bad and I really hope you will find a person like that.
Your words are balm for my soul seriously 😭 you are the sweetest person 
Private
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Idk maybe unconsciously I feel not good enough for a "normal" relationship with a young guy or something 
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