I think I should quit - Forum

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Rotte wrote:

Nesta wrote:

Angelica wrote:

Nesta wrote:
and 10 hours of tv-series (or 4-5 movies) a day ain't it

In theory, it probably is though. Because what you consume there, is probably a better influence than this.

depends on the quality of what you're watching. esp long-term.

Oh yea, if you are like me and watch documentaries on bad things, probably. But if it's just watching 10 hours of queer eye, it's a 100 procent better than being here.

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Angelica wrote:

Nesta wrote:

Angelica wrote:
In theory, it probably is though. Because what you consume there, is probably a better influence than this.

depends on the quality of what you're watching. esp long-term.

Oh yea, if you are like me and watch documentaries on bad things, probably. But if it's just watching 10 hours of queer eye, it's a 100 procent better than being here.

personally, that series would decease me after one episode but each to own. too little quality material left and in my awareness zone to fill 10 hours atm.

ArianaGrande
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ArianaGrande wrote:

Nesta wrote:

Angelica wrote:

Nesta wrote:
Take it from someone who sucks at quitting and have quitted at least trice,
- the attachment to the clothing is gonna be forgotten in a few weeks
- you should likely have a plan to fill the space(s) or void(s) vp is filling for you now, so find that one first and it's gonna be easier when you don't have vp to lean on
- sometimes just regulating how long you stay online a day is a good start or like healthier long-term, if you normally fail to quit on the spot or overplay. works on reducing the negative effect.
- do a max vacation first so you don't regret it and see how you feel after then, or just don't log inn (if you can't and log in anyways, sell all the things you want to keep to a friend you trust and delete)
- lurking un-logged in is sometimes entertaining, but it rly puts the vp quality in question when you don't have active ties to your friends

also,
- don't be me. you can do it!

For sure, if you are one vp to kind of have something to do and something to get your mind of things, get yourself something else (and more healthy) to spend your time on. It will make it 10 times easier to quit!

and 10 hours of tv-series (or 4-5 movies) a day ain't it

i cant exactly remember how i spent my time when i quit, but it consisted of watching an unhealthy amount of tiktok, soap operas and playing minecraft with friends. if you quit i 100% suggest you stay in touch with the people you've added on discord and build your friendship with them over there rather than keeping it restricted to forums.

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MissLondon wrote:

Aphrodite wrote:

Nesta wrote:
Take it from someone who sucks at quitting and have quitted at least trice,
- the attachment to the clothing is gonna be forgotten in a few weeks
- you should likely have a plan to fill the space(s) or void(s) vp is filling for you now, so find that one first and it's gonna be easier when you don't have vp to lean on
- sometimes just regulating how long you stay online a day is a good start or like healthier long-term, if you normally fail to quit on the spot or overplay. works on reducing the negative effect.
- do a max vacation first so you don't regret it and see how you feel after then, or just don't log inn (if you can't and log in anyways, sell all the things you want to keep to a friend you trust and delete)
- lurking un-logged in is sometimes entertaining, but it rly puts the vp quality in question when you don't have active ties to your friends

also,
- don't be me. you can do it!

Thank u so much!!! Ill deffo keep these in mind
i think my main problem is that i do have a lot of friends here but at the same time id rather spend time with my irl friends and focus on school etc
It’s a tough decision to be made

I love you to bits and I’m not trying
to be obnoxious but invest in your rl friendships
online is cool but there’s not much here
people are broken and hella negative
so there’s nothing that you’re missing out on
live your best life and don’t look back

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hmm wrote:

Nesta wrote:

Angelica wrote:
For sure, if you are one vp to kind of have something to do and something to get your mind of things, get yourself something else (and more healthy) to spend your time on. It will make it 10 times easier to quit!

and 10 hours of tv-series (or 4-5 movies) a day ain't it

i cant exactly remember how i spent my time when i quit, but it consisted of watching an unhealthy amount of tiktok, soap operas and playing minecraft with friends. if you quit i 100% suggest you stay in touch with the people you've added on discord and build your friendship with them over there rather than keeping it restricted to forums.

yeah, i quit for a month during lockdown and had WAY too much time on my hands and the amount of series I checked off was unhealthy

Aphrodite
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Aphrodite wrote:

Nesta wrote:

Aphrodite wrote:

Nesta wrote:
Take it from someone who sucks at quitting and have quitted at least trice,
- the attachment to the clothing is gonna be forgotten in a few weeks
- you should likely have a plan to fill the space(s) or void(s) vp is filling for you now, so find that one first and it's gonna be easier when you don't have vp to lean on
- sometimes just regulating how long you stay online a day is a good start or like healthier long-term, if you normally fail to quit on the spot or overplay. works on reducing the negative effect.
- do a max vacation first so you don't regret it and see how you feel after then, or just don't log inn (if you can't and log in anyways, sell all the things you want to keep to a friend you trust and delete)
- lurking un-logged in is sometimes entertaining, but it rly puts the vp quality in question when you don't have active ties to your friends

also,
- don't be me. you can do it!

Thank u so much!!! Ill deffo keep these in mind
i think my main problem is that i do have a lot of friends here but at the same time id rather spend time with my irl friends and focus on school etc
It’s a tough decision to be made

well, i guess I'd start with acting as you are prioritizing. say yes to offer w your friend adn school and take the time to yourself so you're able to do it more. then, when you truly got nothing left to do you can check in back here if u r not deleting

Definitely! And I have very intense therapy and psychiatrist meetings rn as well so im just thinking veepee is probably not the best place to be in during this time

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Rotte wrote:

MissLondon wrote:

Aphrodite wrote:

Nesta wrote:
Take it from someone who sucks at quitting and have quitted at least trice,
- the attachment to the clothing is gonna be forgotten in a few weeks
- you should likely have a plan to fill the space(s) or void(s) vp is filling for you now, so find that one first and it's gonna be easier when you don't have vp to lean on
- sometimes just regulating how long you stay online a day is a good start or like healthier long-term, if you normally fail to quit on the spot or overplay. works on reducing the negative effect.
- do a max vacation first so you don't regret it and see how you feel after then, or just don't log inn (if you can't and log in anyways, sell all the things you want to keep to a friend you trust and delete)
- lurking un-logged in is sometimes entertaining, but it rly puts the vp quality in question when you don't have active ties to your friends

also,
- don't be me. you can do it!

Thank u so much!!! Ill deffo keep these in mind
i think my main problem is that i do have a lot of friends here but at the same time id rather spend time with my irl friends and focus on school etc
It’s a tough decision to be made

I love you to bits and I’m not trying
to be obnoxious but invest in your rl friendships
online is cool but there’s not much here
people are broken and hella negative
so there’s nothing that you’re missing out on
live your best life and don’t look back

I agree, aphrodite is a dear friend and it's sad too know she is not here. But real friend ships are just forfilling in a way online friendsships are not, so i really couldn't blame here for quitting!

ArianaGrande
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ArianaGrande wrote:
even if u find new hobbies i believe that vp does contribute a lot to the need for socialization if u don't have time for that irl or barely any friends outside of it, so yes the discord tip is important!! keeping a circle really is important when u quit these kinds of websites

Private
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Rotte wrote:

Nesta wrote:

Angelica wrote:

Nesta wrote:
depends on the quality of what you're watching. esp long-term.

Oh yea, if you are like me and watch documentaries on bad things, probably. But if it's just watching 10 hours of queer eye, it's a 100 procent better than being here.

personally, that series would decease me after one episode but each to own. too little quality material left and in my awareness zone to fill 10 hours atm.

Oh I will gladly do it haha! One episode of queer eye and i have laughed more than i would in a week on vp

Aphrodite
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Aphrodite wrote:

MissLondon wrote:

Aphrodite wrote:

Nesta wrote:
Take it from someone who sucks at quitting and have quitted at least trice,
- the attachment to the clothing is gonna be forgotten in a few weeks
- you should likely have a plan to fill the space(s) or void(s) vp is filling for you now, so find that one first and it's gonna be easier when you don't have vp to lean on
- sometimes just regulating how long you stay online a day is a good start or like healthier long-term, if you normally fail to quit on the spot or overplay. works on reducing the negative effect.
- do a max vacation first so you don't regret it and see how you feel after then, or just don't log inn (if you can't and log in anyways, sell all the things you want to keep to a friend you trust and delete)
- lurking un-logged in is sometimes entertaining, but it rly puts the vp quality in question when you don't have active ties to your friends

also,
- don't be me. you can do it!

Thank u so much!!! Ill deffo keep these in mind
i think my main problem is that i do have a lot of friends here but at the same time id rather spend time with my irl friends and focus on school etc
It’s a tough decision to be made

I love you to bits and I’m not trying
to be obnoxious but invest in your rl friendships
online is cool but there’s not much here
people are broken and hella negative
so there’s nothing that you’re missing out on
live your best life and don’t look back

This means so much to me!! You and many of my other friends are the exact reason why i am so hesitant but luckily i have many of yalls socials so i know you wont disappear forever. Love you so so much

Aphrodite
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Aphrodite wrote:

Angelica wrote:

MissLondon wrote:

Aphrodite wrote:
Thank u so much!!! Ill deffo keep these in mind
i think my main problem is that i do have a lot of friends here but at the same time id rather spend time with my irl friends and focus on school etc
It’s a tough decision to be made

I love you to bits and I’m not trying
to be obnoxious but invest in your rl friendships
online is cool but there’s not much here
people are broken and hella negative
so there’s nothing that you’re missing out on
live your best life and don’t look back

I agree, aphrodite is a dear friend and it's sad too know she is not here. But real friend ships are just forfilling in a way online friendsships are not, so i really couldn't blame here for quitting!

🥺🥺🥺🥺 ur making me cry friends this is not ok!!!! We’ve known for sooo long it would be weird to not be here.. but then again other things in life are waiting for me aaaa

Aria
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Aria wrote:
you won't hide from the videos I send you

Aphrodite
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Aphrodite wrote:

Aria wrote:
you won't hide from the videos I send you

Oh no 😩😩 my tiktok 😩😩 its broken 😩😩