Claire wrote:Heaven wrote:Claire wrote:
literally nobody on the crew has a high enough emotional intelligence to be dealing with someone like trisha on a regular basis.
tbf not many people in the world do hence the stigma against bpd lmao
or even people who do end up frustrated with the repetition of difficult behaviors. like i dont know that i could be friends with someone like trisha. i could handle a fight like this maybe three or four times and then just be too exhuasted by the slow rate of change and long term end up putting my own need for peace ahead of my love for the friend.
which might be the best call for h3 right now- hila is about to have multiples do they really need trisha drama during the next nine months.
like i want for trisha to have loving friends who stay by her side and are supportive no matter what but i also want for hila to have a safe and chill pregnancy.
as someone with borderline tendencies and symptoms (not yet diagniosed, a bit youg) i can say this is very true